Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

[yogi77]

Girls I'm sooooo scared, I've been having pain on and off for an hour, no blood yet but I feel like it's on it's way

Oh Sassy I wish I could come give you a big hug Let's try to think and stay positive, could just be little bubs settling in. Thinking of you and hoping the pain passes soon.

 

[msarkozi]

Sass - I already wrote in your journal that the pain is a normal pregnancy symptom as well. So don't think you are going to lose this baby.....You have to think positive, and just relax. The fact that you have morning sickness is a very good sign.

Lucy - hope you feel better soon hun

 

[LucyJ]

Oh sassy don't panic put your feet up and try and relax its probably just baby getting comfy.

What is the pain like?

Thinking of you sending massive

 

[Sassy_TTC]

I have constant back ache, then I can't decided if it's cramps or stretchy sort of pains, I also keep getting ovulation pains which is worrying me! Why is pregnancy after M/C so bloody scarey, it's not fair!xxx

 

[LucyJ]

Its scary because you know what can happen and it is horrid that we have to go through this and question everything. Your getting bad ms which is a good sign and the pains are probably just your body stretching to make room for your little one. It could also be your body responding to the throwing up. Sending lots and lots of love

 

[Megg33k]

How do I link my chart hun??

Go to FF and then Sharing>Homepage Setup and you should see your chart's url in a little box toward the top. It will look something like this: https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/randomlettersandnumbers

Hey gorgeous girlies,

Thought I'd stop by and say Hello, as Megg and Cazza wrote in my journal I don't post on here much anymore! Sorry.xxx

I am keeping up and reading all the post's I just don't have much free time anymore as if I'm not sleeping, my head is always down the toilet, or puking in Tesco or my latest one this morning puking in a bush at the park, poor Hubby was so embarressed and Woody tried to lick it up

What's going to this week, I seem to have lost track now there's so many of us. Who's testing, ovulating etc. Megg what's the next step with your IVF?? do you finish your BC soon.

LOL at Cazza and Cesca, I'm soooooooooooooo horny wtf is that all about?? Even driving in my car get's me frisky, I feel like a 18yr old again! We have a sex ban on until at least 12 weeks, but I did ask Hubby to cop a feel as I'm getting desperate, he declined!!

I promise to try and post a bit more.xxxxxxx

Good to see you in here even if briefly! I'm so sorry you've been so sick, but I know you probably love every minute to some degree at least! I know I would! I'd hate and love it at the same time!

My next step is Monday... ultrasound, Kevin's blood work, and calendar review... then Wednesday will be Lupron to induce menopause (temporarily, of course)... then I'm not sure. I have to wait till Monday for further instructions!

You must be so excited, I am for you, I need to try and keep up with your journal more to see what's going on, I'm a terrible stalker at the mo. I so hope you get your wish of seeing a heartbeat before Xmas, how amazing would that be!

Sickness isn't bothering me at all, poor Danny just caught me throwing up as I didn't get the chance to shut the door, he rubbed my back and said "god babe I don't envy you, if it was me being sick like that ,we would never have a baby" I just dread going out! I'm worried how I'll cope at work as I have hardly keep anything down in days now

I know it must be daunting to even think of leaving now!

girls,

well I have had a fun filled day spent most of it at a&e!! My eye has got gradually worse so went to see the out of hours dr who thought I might have shingles so referred me to main hospital about a half hour drive for us to see eye specialist had to wait for ever then he wasnt sure they dont think it is shingles thank god but could be impetigo (great I am having a truly wonderful time at the moment so fed up) anyway been given a prescription but its sunday so everywhere is shut as we didnt get out of the hospital till half 4. Have an appointment tomorrow morning with a dermetologist for them to have a look at it. I am so sick of hospital and drs and feeling rough and looking hideous I just want to know my baby is ok and have a healthy happy pregnancy happy for pregnancy symptoms but not all the other shit. Sorry I'm just feeling very down and sorry for myself

Aww, honey! I hope so much that you get good news and can go on to enjoy this pregnancy!

When I do that and preview its an chart overlay...not my actual chart??? Why is that LOL???

You might have to scroll down some. The overlay is often above the current month's chart!

Girls I'm sooooo scared, I've been having pain on and off for an hour, no blood yet but I feel like it's on it's way

Oh, Sass! I'm sure its nothing, sweetheart! Just put your feet up and relax. It could definitely just be bean snuggling in tighter or your body being fed up of vomiting or your uterus starting to stretch, honey!

 

[cazza22]

Sass im 100% sure its just threw being sick babe, i threw my guts up earlier and was cramping for a couple of minutes, i think its all the wrenching?. As for back ache i had that a couple of days ago when AF would have been here & Mel put my mind at ease. Please chill out put ur feet up & relax, let danny do the running around xxxxxxxxx Lov caz xxxxxxxxx

 

[prgirl_cesca]

My tummy always hurt after throwing up. And it also hurt a lot when I needed to go for, erm, a number two!

And backache is very normal. Like that kind of 'cant get comfortable' backache.

 

[CJSG1977]

I agree, Sass hunni you are going to be fine. My niece has terrible cramps in her pregnancy and was 10 days overdue with her daughter! You will be. Like already mentioned sometimes these cramps happen around when af would have been due. I know you dont want to remember but miscarriage back pain is horrific and pregnancy symptoms tend to switch off. So with all the puking it sounds like you are doing just great!

 

[heart tree]

Sassers I hope everything is ok lovey. I'm sure it will be but it is impossible not to be scared. You are probably sleeping right now. I hope you wake up feeling better.

CJ I want to see your chart!!! Please figure out how to post it LOL!

Lucy when it rains it pours. I can't believe this is all happening at once. I hope your eye gets better soon. I'm holding hope for your bean right now.

Ladies I am having a liitle cry right now. Yesterday Tim's cousin told us she was pregnant. Today one of my best friends told me she is pregnant. How many more will there be before me? I'm feeling down about it all right now. I'm happy for them. But I'm having a hard time with the unfairness of it all. This is each of their second babies. Sigh.…

 

[babywanted73]

Amanda, I am so sorry. I know how you feel. Thankfully no one is telling me they are pregnant, but it seems everyone is having babies. I feel so lost. Upset and hurt. It is hard coping...

Have you had your vitamin D level checked?

Sass, I had a friend who was throwing up often and she was cramping and said her stomach hurt after. She is due next week.

 

[Allie84]

Oh Lucy, I can't believe it; what a shit day! Sod's law or what.... I hope you feel better very, very soon. Take care of yourself and remember we're all here for you.

Hearty, that really, really stinks. I can't imagine hearing about pregnancies from people in my life two days in a row. It's unfair that you aren't pregnant yourself.

Sass, feel better soon girlie. I hope you feel better when you wake up tomorrow.

I hope everyone had a nice weekend. I can't believe it's almost Monday again!!

 

[heart tree]

Thanks Shannon and Allie. Shan I haven't had my vit D levels checked but I make sure to get some sun every day. It is definitely hard to cope sometimes for sure.

Allie how is the soy treating you?

 

[babywanted73]

Amanda I just read your diagnosis are they doing anything for it?

I found this intersting article.
https://www.adeno101.com/phyto.htm
Dont mind me I start studying to be an herbalist soon and fertility will be my main focus.

 

[babywanted73]

This lady has intersting articles
https://www.naturallyknockedup.com/

 

[CJSG1977]

Amanda!!! I know how you feel!!! xxx

I still cant link my chart so here is a pic... to date... please let me know what you think. xx

 

[Megg33k]

It does look like Thur, CJ... But it looks like you're using a 1 decimal place thermometer which is usually pretty inaccurate. So, there's really no way to know!

Sassers I hope everything is ok lovey. I'm sure it will be but it is impossible not to be scared. You are probably sleeping right now. I hope you wake up feeling better.

CJ I want to see your chart!!! Please figure out how to post it LOL!

Lucy when it rains it pours. I can't believe this is all happening at once. I hope your eye gets better soon. I'm holding hope for your bean right now.

Ladies I am having a liitle cry right now. Yesterday Tim's cousin told us she was pregnant. Today one of my best friends told me she is pregnant. How many more will there be before me? I'm feeling down about it all right now. I'm happy for them. But I'm having a hard time with the unfairness of it all. This is each of their second babies. Sigh.…

Oh, that SUCKS! I wish I had words to make it better... but there aren't any! It will all be worth it when its your turn though!

 

[Allie84]

Allie how is the soy treating you?

Thanks for asking. I don't feel any different....and am not sure whether to take that as a good or bad sign. I think maybe I feel that sensation in my ovaries Megg was talking about but it might be psychosomatic. I'm wondering if I should up my dose these next, final two days to 160 mg (I decided to go with the 120 initially as it appears to be the most common dosage). FX I ovulate before Thanksgiving!

 

[Megg33k]

Allie how is the soy treating you?

Thanks for asking. I don't feel any different....and am not sure whether to take that as a good or bad sign. I think maybe I feel that sensation in my ovaries Megg was talking about but it might be psychosomatic. I'm wondering if I should up my dose these next, final two days to 160 mg (I decided to go with the 120 initially as it appears to be the most common dosage). FX I ovulate before Thanksgiving!

Leave your dose the same! And, you probably won't feel as much of the ovary stuff until you STOP taking it. So, no worries!

 

[vickyd]

Good Morning ladies!

Luce you are really having a shite time lately and it aint bloody fair.....Lets hope a positive Scan makes up for all this crap hun, when are you having it done?

Sass i wont tell you to relax and all....I know how scary every little twinge can be...heck just last night i woke up in horrible pain which i was sure was an impending mc until i let out a giganto fart and all was ok! Your scan is tomorrow, everything will be alright and youll have 8 months of this worrying to look forward to!

Hearty babes, these announcements suck....You have to believe that you will be next hun..You just have to!

Megg im confused at what stage you are in your IVF but im sending you massive hugs and positive vibes for the best possible outcome!

As for me, had an ok weekend! went out Sat. afternoon with some old school mates and had a huge brunch. Then i pretty much bacame a couch potato for the rest of the weekend lol!