Megg33k
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It's confirmed. Tim's other cousin is also pregnant. Now I'm going to have 2 women who are pregnant with their second babies at my Thanksgiving. I'll be the only woman not pregnant or not a mother.
Bollocks, honey! That's so hard! My heart breaks for you!
Sorry to hear that Hearty
I've just come back from my FS appt. Didn't get very good news. My progesterone is far too low, I need to lose some weight to get my BMI down and he's concerned about the pain and spotting and wants to do a lap and dye. He thinks my thyroid levels are ok.He also wants Mal to do another SA, and if that comes back at the same low level for morphology, we would be looking at IVF.
Just feel like crying and jacking it all in! The only positive thing he said, was that I managed to get pg before fairly quickly. He also advised not to bother temping any more.
That's hard to hear! Dammit! Its a bad day for the Disco girls! Would your IVF be covered if that's what it come to? I hope it won't be necessary, honey! But, it does sound like he's wanting to do all he can to help! I'm here if you need to talk it through. I know what its like to get that shock.
Thanks Lucy. I'm so upset right now. I'm having a pity party for myself. It just doesn't seem fair. I was pregnant with my first 2 Thanksgivings ago and announced it to these very people on Thanksgiving. Now look at me. I should have 2 babies and another due in March. And these girls, who are sisters by the way, already have babies. Why do they get their second ones and I don't even have one? I'm hoping to he in the tww for Thanksgiving but I got a negative Opk today so I doubt I will be. You are right, it is right around the corner, but I still can't help thinking about all the pregnancy talk that will be happening that day.
I was thinking about emailing both of them and telling them how happy I am for them but how hard it is for me. They don't know about my diagnosis so I would tell them about that as well. Is that awful of me to do? I don't want to take away from their joy but I do want them to be sensitive to my feelings. I don't know what to do. Should I just try and deal with it?
Help!
I would definitely email them and come 100% clean about everything. Let them know that you ARE happy for them, but you are REALLY struggling with it right now... especially because you don't know exactly what your diagnosis will be in the end. Tell them all you can or feel comfortable with. We've talked many times about not hiding in the shadows and making others aware of the pain of loss and infertility. This is your chance to take the first step toward stepping into the sunlight where you can be honest about your situation and get proper support... instead of having people unknowingly making things worse. I imagine that they would totally understand if you said that hearing loads about the pregnancies might be difficult for you. Just speak your mind in a respectful way... If they're good people, they'll understand. As for me... I definitely understand and will ALWAYS be here for you if you need me. Don't ever hesitate to use me as a sounding board! And, if you're ever can't get online and need me, you can reach me at 309-712-4503. (That goes for all of you!) Just make sure to tell me who you are so I don't ignore it!
AFM... I feel silly even posting this... Its been such a bad day in here... But, I got confirmation from my clinic that I could call yesterday CD1, and I can start my stims Saturday as long as my E2 level comes back okay. She said no news was good news, so don't expect to hear from them. Also, I found my mushrooms and have my roast in. Its not going to be done until 9:30pm! OOPS! I think we might have to snack! Luckily we stay up late, so 9:30 isn't right before bed. Still... I feel silly... but the damn mushrooms were in hiding!
There it is! The 1st one is my veggies in the bottom of my pan (potatoes, onions, and porcinis)... I reconstituted the porcinis and then mixed the "au jus" gravy mix into the mushroom stock and mixed onion soup mix into it too. Then, we put in the potatoes and stacked the onions and mushrooms on top of them. The 2nd one is the roast after I put salt, pepper, onion powder, and garlic powder on it and seared each side. The 3rd one is the seared roast wrapped in bacon on top of the veggies and ready to cook! *drool* I expect this to be the best food on the face of the planet! LOL Yorkshire pudding is getting a 2nd chance tonight too! I got a really good recipe with excellent instructions! So, I'm anxious to give it a go!