Disco Derail! - TTCAL/PAL Discussion and Support!

ive lost interest in x factor and am half heartedly googling chocolate. I cant find any good sources of reeses for you in york sugar.

i have biscuits tonight.

you know i keep going on about Lindt bunnies. I realised yesterday that all this time i thought i was eating bunnies, i was actually eating reindeers. Who'd have thought it.

wooo celeb trailer has shaun telling gillian to shut up.
 
Not at all Sassy. She has one of the most irritating personalites ever. I dare you to set up a "let's stone Katy' group on fb :haha:
 
Nato I've googled it already :haha:

Who does everyone want to win on Celeb? I adore Shaun Ryder. Think he's hilarious and like dippy Stacey too :thumbup:

Oooh Matt was good at the end of that song!
 
i love shaun best, and stacey next best.

i got told i look like shaun ryder once.
 
Dom's not very popular, but i dont mind him either

all the tabloids are running stories implying how unhealthy, miserable and neurotic vegetarians are cos of gillian. i could wrestle a bear myself. i am not a sickly little wretch
 
Dom makes me laugh! I loved it when Shaun and him were laughing about Gillian looking like she's been exhumed! :haha:

Nato, I've seen photos of you on fb. You're exactly how a good healthy vegetarian should look like!

I'm off to make a hot choc in the break. It's fricking freezing with lots of show outside. Mal is fast asleep with the dog on the floor at 9.45 pm. Rock and roll! We BD'd earlier, must have worn him out :haha:
 
I'm out of the X-Factor loop, but just thought I'd say hi and make sure Nato is still peeing on sticks...yes a BFN at 11 dpo doesn't exist...

Lucy wow flying lessons that sounds awesome!!
 
Coming late to the x-factor conversation but I love Matt thought his second song was amazing and ahhhh to katie talking about wrecking two great songs please tell me she wont get to the semi-final!! Is it a double eviction tomorrow.

I'm loving shaun ryder and stacey. Did you see when shaun got bitten by the snake!!

Hearty and Nato the flying was so good felt so free but I would be the biggest mess if you put me on a boat fine with water but just hate being on a boat but love being in planes. Thank you for thinking I'm brave. My niece is very proud of me although now she thinks I'm a pilot how sweet but she was a bit upset to hear I didnt get a sticker for being a good flyer bless her.

Nato you can hide behind me if you need to glad class was better.

Sassy thank you for your lovely words and I'm so happy to hear your a bit more relaxed just so you know I think your amazing so exicted for your 12 week scan.

Thanks for all the support for trying again steve is definately up for it I'm lucky as he "puts out" pretty much all the time I've been know to wave opks in his face and tell him we have to :sex: we try and keep spontansous or at least not always about making a baby even though I know that its always at the back of our minds. I think he realises that once I'm pregnant he may not get any so takes full advantage :haha:
 
Hey Yogi, how are you hun?

Lucy, that's great news about trying again. Fingers crossed for you! Mal's a randy devil too, and would happily BD every day if he could!

I was really shocked when Shaun and Lembit were bitten. Shaun's bite looked really bad!
 
Hey Yogi, how are you hun?

Lucy, that's great news about trying again. Fingers crossed for you! Mal's a randy devil too, and would happily BD every day if he could!

I was really shocked when Shaun and Lembit were bitten. Shaun's bite looked really bad!

I'm doing okay thanks :hugs:

I forgot to mention that I went out for dinner and drinks with a girlfriend of mine last night who miscarried a few weeks ago...she found out at her first dating scan. I'm glad I can be of some support to her and that we have eachother to relate to...I really hope we both get our wishes soon!

Then today I went out shopping with a girlfriend and her 8 month old baby girl (why do I torture myself)...while we were out we ran into a lady I used to work with who I haven't seen in about 10 months...first thing she did was run up to me, put her hands on my belly and said "are you pregnant yet?!??!" I know she means well, but seriously, how frustrating!!!! I just said nope and she said "oh you must get asked that all the time"...YES as a matter of fact!!!! uuuugggghhh

...afterwards I told my girlfriend that's why I should never leave the house LOL!
 
that's crap Yogi :growlmad: people should really think before doing and saying things like that! Sorry to hear about your friend. I'm sure she appreciates the support you are able to give her
x
 
Yogi, that sounds awful. Why do people do stuff like that? Sorry babe. On a positive note, your chart looks good. Looks like you Ov'd yesterday!
 
Lucy, that is so amazing that you flew a cessna today! I am so in awe and also very curious what it was like. I am very interested in planes and flying myself- I developed a fear/fascination with flying a a few years ago and love reading up on how flying works, types of aircraft, etc. It helped with my fear, and now Alex get a play-by-play whenever we fly. :haha: When are you going up again? Oh, and good luck getting back into TTC. :hugs: It's a good thing Steve's always up for it.

Sassy, I cannot believe how close to second tri you are! I'm really excited for you, and so pleased to hear the sickness is waning. :dance:

Nato, you are a girl after my own heart. I love chocolate, and especially sitting in front of the tv munching on chocolate. I am on the lookout for those reindeer Lindt. I saw them once and can't remember where but you reminded me. Yum. Speaking of which....

Sugar, I will totally send you Reeses in exchange for Galaxy! Actually, I was thinking of how much I am going to miss Celebrations if we don't make it to the UK for Christmas, so maybe I could send you loads of chocolate in a transcontinental chocolate exchange.

Yogi, I'm so sorry to hear about your friend. Also about your 'Are you pregnant?' run in. :dohh: :hugs:

Oh, Hearty, what a beautiful blanket! I think making one for Megg's baby is such a lovely idea.
 
Megg, I think your friend may have just posted in TTC.... I think a blanket is a lovely idea. Do you have a charm bracelet? If not maybe you could start adding charms for your angels as well as your (soon!) lil one.

Dawney - I'm so sorry hun, I don't know what to say, take care of yourself.

Lucy - flying lessons sound fantastic, that must be an amazing feeling, and so glad you feel up to trying again. What you said about going out is exactly how I am feeling, just really scared and anxious of being out, especially around lots of people, I'm ok in the park but just feel I want to be home as it seems safe somehow. Think Nato was spot on when she said because I wasn't working when everything happened, it's almost like I didn't have the normal people interaction that I had with the other mc's, so I've become very insular and isolated. I do need to go and see this agency next week tho' so will have to pull myself out of it, sure if I do it once I'll be ok. I'm down to Kent to stay with my folks end of next week as well so I'll be away from M as he has to work, that might help.

Sugar - I'm a PA hun, I worked for a quite well known entrepreneurper years ago, so all the agencies call me straight away now if they have anyone who is even semi-famous looking for a PA... even tho' i've said I don't want stress!!! and working for those kind of peeps brings loads of it. I could stay off work for a few more months yet, not well off but got quite a good redundancy last year which can keep me going, plus my outgoings are pretty low now I live with M. I'm stressing a bit though because last time I got a full-time job in Feb, I found out I was pregnant the day before my first day, so felt I had to tell them, which in retrospect was a huge mistake as I lost 3 weeks later and of course it put me in a bad light straight away - my boss was such a prick that he would ask me practically every month if I was pregnant again (which I usually was!) and it really got me down. I was office manager and had 4 PA's that reported into me and it just got very difficult - hence why i left. I don't want that to happen again, which is why I'm thinking just some temp work or maybe a 3-4 month contract..... god I'm rambling!

Nato - it's still early days, and if your temp is looking good then I don't think you should give up hope this month..... but it does sound like you've had a shit week hun. hope you had a better session today.

Hearty - I do think I'm probably depressed, but I get good days and bad days so I don't think it's become clinical. Glad you and Tim managed to get a BD in, and ha ha to your spillage!! that's dedication for you..... made me think I need to dust my bedside table!

I am having a thai chicken curry made for me as I speak with naan bread and basmati, M is a fab cook So so hungry, it feels about -10 here in London tonight, can't wait for X factor and have a snuggle down, am 5dpo today and feeling very tired, tingly boobs, and heartburny (maybe curry not such a great idea)....going to test Weds!

Have a lovely day/evening everyone...

You're correct... That's her. I have a charm bracelet, but its currently in disrepair. However, I've considered getting a new one. That's a good idea! :thumbup:

Lucy, flying terrifies me. I'm so envious that you are so fearless of it. I get a huge amount of anxiety when I fly to the point where my heart beats faster and I start to sweat. I don't know where this phobia came from, but I hate it. Good for you for finding something you love. I'm glad it instilled hope in you. And yay for your decision to start trying again. I know how scary it is, but my feeling is that I'll regret it if I don't try, regardless of the result.

Dawny, I'm glad you are finding the silver lining to getting AF. Good for you.

Megg, I would absolutely make a blanket for you. We can PM about what I'd need. I love sewing and have been trying to think of a new project. I've only made one of these blankets, but really want to make another. I've been waiting to have my own baby to make one but you know how that is going. At some point I was thinking about selling them. I got the idea from a blanket that a baby I babysat for had. I examined it and recreated it with fabrics that I liked.

Sassy, I'm loving that you aren't sick! It's because you are moving into the second trimester soon and the sickness start to wane. Can you believe you are almost in the second tri???

Mone, sounds like your last job was extremely stressful. It's no wonder you don't want to start a new job. It sounds like it could be a trigger for you. I know you'll pull yourself out of it though. I think taking it in small doses is an excellent idea. Enjoy your delicious sounding food. Mmmmm

I don't know when I last dusted my bedside table. Now I'm disgusted. I'm going to clean it now.

I would be HONORED if you made me a blanket! I'm so excited. Definitely PM me with what you need, and I'll get to shopping ASAP! Thank you so much! :hugs:

Good evening. Mone, minus 10???

Im agog. And cold.

Im watching Top Celebrity Feuds and i have a box of M&S chocolate rounds. Best chocolate biscuits. Sod them, come and be my PA. I will pay you in chocolate rounds. And all you'd have to do would be phone in work sick for me. Sum of my PA needs.

Had another bfn, but only 11dpo. Im notbothered.com. Im sulky and defensive. Its like im in a huff with my own ovaries - im not talking to them.

Hearty, class was ok cos we didnt process at all, just checked out. A few of the other students havent realised thats were processing lies. They talk on behalf of the group and talk about what happened rather than how they felt about it. Im glad Tim has made a commitment to prioritising, hopefully your super strong medicated egg will attract disorientated dusty sperm this time round. Your so clever to be able to make that blanket, i cant even sew a button on.

Ah Luce, thanks for the offer but apparently i have to actually talk about it rather than scream, run off and hide behind you. More's the pity. Cor, go you on the cessna piloting. Are you Mones celebrity client? Gotta at admit, you are way braver than I too.

Dawny, glad to hear that things arent being made more difficult.

Hi Sassers, get you and your healthiness. I have a cold sore and the sniffles. Im jealous of your immune system

Boo @ your BFN... however, it means nothing yet... glad you seem to know that already!

We won't be telling anyone until 20 weeks, I have a scan at 16weeks to check heart etc so after that we may tell our group of best friends but nobody else!

Hubby's Dad is having a huge party in January when I'll be 20weeks so we will be showing up with the bump on show (tight dress), can't wait to see everyone's faces!!xx

Oh, that sounds AMAZING! xxx

That sounds perfect Sass. Can we see pics of the 20 week tight dress bump??

Nato, so glad you didn't get that emotional beat down. Your class needs some more lessons, don't they? I don't believe in bfn's at 11dpo. Glad you aren't concerned, because I'm not either.

Inquiring minds want to know!

Megg, have you started the stimming hunny :hugs:

I started tonight. The 1st injection is done. 225IU injected, easy peasy! No problems! I do that tomorrow, and then change dose and add another injection Monday. :happydance:

Hey Yogi, how are you hun?

Lucy, that's great news about trying again. Fingers crossed for you! Mal's a randy devil too, and would happily BD every day if he could!

I was really shocked when Shaun and Lembit were bitten. Shaun's bite looked really bad!

I'm doing okay thanks :hugs:

I forgot to mention that I went out for dinner and drinks with a girlfriend of mine last night who miscarried a few weeks ago...she found out at her first dating scan. I'm glad I can be of some support to her and that we have eachother to relate to...I really hope we both get our wishes soon!

Then today I went out shopping with a girlfriend and her 8 month old baby girl (why do I torture myself)...while we were out we ran into a lady I used to work with who I haven't seen in about 10 months...first thing she did was run up to me, put her hands on my belly and said "are you pregnant yet?!??!" I know she means well, but seriously, how frustrating!!!! I just said nope and she said "oh you must get asked that all the time"...YES as a matter of fact!!!! uuuugggghhh

...afterwards I told my girlfriend that's why I should never leave the house LOL!

OMG! That's bloody awful! I'm so sorry!!!! :hugs:



AFM... I didn't find the purchase I was hoping for today. In fact, I practically did the worst thing possible on such a day. I went to a movie about a couple who is suffering through life without their child and the theatre was packed full of children. Uhm... What was I thinking? The movie was "Tangled"... about Repunzel. She was kidnapped, obviously... and trapped in a tower. But, every year on her birthday, her parents (the king and queen) would release lanterns in hopes that their lost princess would come home to them. The place was literally packed with children... adorable ones. And, then there was my mom holding my cousin's little boy on her lap... and it should be MY baby that we're doing those things with. And, what's worse... My children will hardly ever get to see their grandparents. We live 4 hours away... So, they'll get one freaking weekend a month. And, there's no possible way for us or them to move. Its just not feasible. So, even i I do get my baby... Those little moments aren't going to happen nearly as often as they should.

I can't say that I didn't have a good day... and the movie was "happily ever after"... but it was just a hard day. I guess I should have known that. I am a little sad that I didn't find the sort of purchase I wanted. But, that's okay. Life isn't perfect!

I think that's it for me. Hope you're all well!
 
Hi Megg. :hugs: I think today was going to be a bit tough for you no matter what. I saw "Tangled" as well and really enjoyed it. It didn't make me think of babies but did make me think of my sister who didn't know our dad until this year, in a funny kind of way. It was such a cute movie, and I was a big fan of the 3-D. I wanted to thank you for what you said about being a self sacrificer in response to my previous post. It defniitely made me think. I know Alex and I gave up a lot to move up here to be near my parents but I'm now wondering if anyone is really benefiting. I guess I've always thought at least my parents are benefiting from us being so close even if we're underemployed, lonely, etc. But, we can't help anyone when we're so stagnant ourselves. So, thank you for your words of wisdom. :hugs:
 
Hi Megg. :hugs: I think today was going to be a bit tough for you no matter what. I saw "Tangled" as well and really enjoyed it. It didn't make me think of babies but did make me think of my sister who didn't know our dad until this year, in a funny kind of way. It was such a cute movie, and I was a big fan of the 3-D. I wanted to thank you for what you said about being a self sacrificer in response to my previous post. It defniitely made me think. I know Alex and I gave up a lot to move up here to be near my parents but I'm now wondering if anyone is really benefiting. I guess I've always thought at least my parents are benefiting from us being so close even if we're underemployed, lonely, etc. But, we can't help anyone when we're so stagnant ourselves. So, thank you for your words of wisdom. :hugs:

You're right. It would have been tough either way. No doubt. It didn't make me think of babies as much as it reminded me how much I miss mine... if that makes sense. Seeing her parents so sad in the movie... It just struck a chord.

You're very welcome. I'm glad it helped. It really stuck with me when I was told the same thing... and I realized that I do need to be a little selfish sometime in order to keep giving in the future. Once you're tapped out... you're just done. I'm really happy it was as important for you to hear as it was for me. Take care and be well! :hugs:
 

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