In response to the career/babies talk- that's why I'm so scared to tell my family! My mom has made it very clear that she would love grandchildren, but only after school is done and career is in place. Not everyone's life works like that!
Confuzion- let us know the results when you hear
Joeyjo- welcome and congrats!
Everything is going to be just fine , you will see
Take it from me . My whole family lives in Europe , I live in USA ( for about 5.5 years now ) and when i was pregnant the first time I was 22 , living 1000's of miles away from my family with boyfriend they have never met ( except for occasional Skype. ) . I was so worried to tell my mom ( even though the pregnancy was planned ) that it took me 5 months
When I finally told her she was crying with happiness even though jste kept telling me not to even think about having a baby while I still live here ( before she new )
She wanted to see me pregnant, touch my belly and see my first baby in person .
She accepted without a problem ( or at least she didn't say anything ) and I finally got her to fly here for my sons 2nd birthday - it's going to be first time they gonna see each other in person .
And when I told her few weeks ago we wanna try for another one she was excited again .
So what I am trying to tell you is I was so much worried about ,, hurting,, or
,,disappointing ,, my family that I dinpdnt even enjoy 5 months of my pregnancy even though I could because everybody was happy for me .
Trust me , they gonna take it well