M_em - we tried the "we're not trying this month" a few times, I've had a few cycles with the legs in the air, we tried ntnp, we tried all the "should have worked" things. Guess its not baby's timing yet. I was just really hoping Katie could have a close sibling. Time is ticking by fast, it's been 9 months since we started. I'm just hoping that Katie will lessen her bf sessions and my body will get in gear in the next few months.