OK so I tried this today and I'm kinda scared I messed it up. I got the egg whites that were already seperated from the grocery store. So then I put a little bit of them in a small mesuring cup and covered it with plastic suran wrap and put in under our bed. We fell asleep for maybe 2-3 hours or so, then we woke up BD'd and then I went to put the eggwites in and they were really cold still. And I read that if they were too cold that they could kill the sperm, which is obviously not what I want to do. So I had OH put them in the microwave for 3 seconds. When he brought them back they were hot... So I let them cool down until they were luke warm, then poured some in the softcup, like I would with the preseed. So I go to insert it, and some of it spilled on the bed...not sure how much but I'm sure some was still in the softcup.. Do you think I botched the whole thing and just maybe killed his sperm somehow with the eggwhites, or botched it by spilling the eggwhites and maybe there wasn't enough in the cup? Cuz I read that a woman who worked at a lab did a test with the soft cups. She BD and then later took the cup out and looked at the sperm in the cup and it was all dead. The next day she tried again only this time she used preseed and when she looked at it, mosy of the sperm were still alive..so I'm thinking that maybe I killed his sperm by spilling the whites? There is another thread on here about this..I'm gonna ask the exact same questions there too ......