First off, I'd love to tell everyone to stop asking when we are going to have a baby because we've been trying for 4+ years and still no baby. Trust me, it's not for lack of wanting, hoping, praying, and trying!
Second, I'd love to say to all my preggo friends, please stop complaining about the morning sickness, weight gain, not being able to drink, not being able to party, etc. Some of us would give ANYTHING to be pregnant and do it without complaining!
Third, I'd love to say to all my friends with kids, please stop complaining about having to get up with a newborn, stop complaining about having to take care of the child/children others would give anything to have, stop complaining about not being able to go out because you can't have a sitter, stop complaining about having no money to spend on yourself because you have another life that you are responsible for.
It is so frustrating to see undeserving people becoming parents when there are so many of us that are ready to give up everything just for a BFP. I have a girl at work that is about 4 months pregnant and all she does is complain about everything. The worst part is she lives with her parents who pay for everything and will undoubtedly be raising this child while she goes out and does whatever she wants to do.
Just depresses me and makes me want to scream!!