Plus i dont think its fair of anyone to say to anyone that they are 100% indisputably not pregnant when there is always the rare cases where women dont test pos for weeks, have decidual bleeding etc and for other people to recommend medical advise such as 'you are fine to have x-rays' i dont think is on. I was keeping my mouth shut about these things but if everyone else is saying what they think then sod it lol.
I kno its different as it was a one off and sorry to use u as an example laila but laila posted that frer evap she had. And she tested even tho her oh had a vasectomy! And no-one went mad asking her reasons or slating her for testing. I found it so ironic after all the grief i got for testing while using condoms then one of those people had tested despite a vasectomy i actually laughed when i saw it i was in disbelief!!
Can I just point something out without you taking it the wrong way:
Dental X-rays during pregnancy deliver such a low dose of radiation that the risks to the unborn child are next to nil. If you were unaware of that then I can understand your concern, but the person who posted this was right in what she said. It's a case of a quick Google search and the NHS website states what I wrote above, and what the person who posted also said. I only say this because they were trying to be helpful, they weren't trying to be rude or trying to get at you.
Laila posted her test because she found it surprising she got that kind of line given she wasn't pregnant. She wanted to put it out there with all the false lines recently (and there have been quite a few) that it can happen. She wasn't aware that even with vasectomy there's a small risk of pregnancy still. She posted her test assuming there wasn't a risk of pregnancy, to show that you can and do get these false lines at times.
Whilst I agree some posts have been out of line, some also haven't too. They have been posting with good intentions to try to help. I know it's also hard to hear when people's opinion is that the chances of pregnancy in your case are slim. They are. You are right to say they aren't non existent but at the same time you know what the score is too, and I mean that with the best intentions. I don't want to sound mean! But I also don't want you to think some of the people who have contributed have been rude when they haven't. Some have, blatantly, but some have only given their honest opinion and also stated facts in order to help.
It's a difficult thing to post about sometimes because we all want you to have the outcome you would ideally like, but at the same time it is also hard to be honest and say if we don't see anything. I have found it hard to say to you when I haven't seen anything because I wouldn't want to hear that if I were in your shoes too so I do understand it from all angles
