Fireflies TCC a rainbow baby

[jumpingo]

Slwady welcome! So sorry for your loss, gosh all that waiting must have made things even harder. Is your thyroid overactive? I got results a couple of weeks ago that show I have thyroid autoantibodies so have been started on thyroxine. Hope you catch a rainbow soon.

She's not yet sure if I do, because they weren't technically out of the "normal" range, but they were very close on the high end. She wants me to come back in on Day 3 of my next period and she'll retest then. If they haven't gone down, then we'd talk about medication. Hoping I don't need it though! She said once you're on it, you can't safely go off of it while pregnant or nursing.

Jumpingo - Distraction is definitely what helps me the most! They anxiety goes completely away. It's just hard to find things to distract me when I'm bored or waiting. You're right though, so far the dr hasn't found anything wrong, so I need to focus on that.

obviously needing to take any kind of medication would be a bummer, but it sounds like she's just being cautious and watching it. it's always good to feel like docs are keeping an eye on stuff even when they are "technically" still within normal limits and it also sounds like it won't conflict with getting pregnant or needing to stop when you get pregnant (not if, WHEN!)

have any hobbies? i am trying to start doing Project Life (i call it scrapbooking/photo album-ing for lazy people!) and cleaning always seems to help me.

 

[SWlady]

My hubby's been making me start getting back on the exercise wagon and that actually helps a lot. Same with playing sports I really want to start getting back into cooking. We were in/out of town a lot, so I got out of the habit. I really enjoy it though!

 

[jumpingo]

My hubby's been making me start getting back on the exercise wagon and that actually helps a lot. Same with playing sports I really want to start getting back into cooking. We were in/out of town a lot, so I got out of the habit. I really enjoy it though!

exercise has helped WAY more than i expected it to. the first week was rough, but now i do 5-6 days a week of something (lifting, running, exercise or yoga classes at the gym, etc.) and i think that's why i've only had one breakdown this week. before i was crying at *least* 4 or 5 times a week, often spurred on by completely unrelated things, but it always came back to being sad about babyjump. so yes, i recommend exercise, as much as i hate working out.

 

[sunshine2014]

Well, I can't claim to be an expert But I definitely came across something thst mentioned how breathing on it can affectit lol. I just think it's funny you fell back asleep, I could never do that lol. Anyways Toss the funny info to the side, I'm sure I would. It could be just another mumbo jumbo out there.

Steph - hi!! Haven't seen you for awhile. So glad things are going well for you and your test results are being looked at and moving forward.

Jump - love your gym enthusiasm. I've gained a few the last few weeks, with just not caring Ana being too busy for the gym. I'll be back at my own home on Monday and I'm super excited to get back into my routine. I want to lose 6 pounds before I get pregnant again. I like how I look, so I actually shouksnt focus on the number....I just want to tone back up!

Wanting - I may look into getting another act. BUT I did get what's app. Yay. I don't know how to add people but we can continue our chat on there If you want hope you're doing well. Curious to see where you are at, since our d&cs were within days of each other.

Hope the rest of you ladies are wonderful!!

 

[jumpingo]

not sure you could call it "enthusiasm" yet. more like "resigned participation."

i know i'm "supposed to" and it's good for me, so i do it.

 

[wantingagirl]

Well, I can't claim to be an expert But I definitely came across something thst mentioned how breathing on it can affectit lol. I just think it's funny you fell back asleep, I could never do that lol. Anyways Toss the funny info to the side, I'm sure I would. It could be just another mumbo jumbo out there.

Steph - hi!! Haven't seen you for awhile. So glad things are going well for you and your test results are being looked at and moving forward.

Jump - love your gym enthusiasm. I've gained a few the last few weeks, with just not caring Ana being too busy for the gym. I'll be back at my own home on Monday and I'm super excited to get back into my routine. I want to lose 6 pounds before I get pregnant again. I like how I look, so I actually shouksnt focus on the number....I just want to tone back up!

Wanting - I may look into getting another act. BUT I did get what's app. Yay. I don't know how to add people but we can continue our chat on there If you want hope you're doing well. Curious to see where you are at, since our d&cs were within days of each other.

Hope the rest of you ladies are wonderful!!

So get a new fb account just for us I wonder if what's app works through uk-us. I'll pm you in a min missed you! Yep what date was urs again mine was 20th. I'm ok feel pretty strong now but get the odd teary moments but I am in day 3 of my period! Hope your ok hunni xx

 

[ajarvis]

thanks Jumpingo! My temp seems to be on the low side recently. I never really sleep a straight 3 hours before, but I'm still laying there. I never move lol. today was really low. Some cramps. Some spotting. I do think AF is trying to come. With my luck she'll show up on Sunday!

 

[NinjaPanda]

Well, AF isn't here yet and no signs of it yet.... Either my cycle is off or luck has hit me.... I think it's probably the first but if I don't get it by the weekend, I may head to the city to buy a test...

 

[steph.]

Ajarvis hope af shows soon, I hate waiting! When will you test again?

Ninja I hop e this is it for you!!! What cd is this for you?

 

[sunshine2014]

haha Jump - I hear you. I love how I feel after working out, but sometimes getting there is tough.

Wanting - I will think about it! I do miss you ladies - but I've loved not having facebook to be honest. But a secret group may be okay! I'll let you know! I got your message about whatsapp, I will see if I can add you tomorrow okay!!
Glad af came -- mine was the 21st, so definitely around the same time. Hope you're doing well. I'm feeling better also...we're tough cookies! (all of us)

ajarvis - fingers crossed for af!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

To the others.... Hi

 

[NinjaPanda]

Steph - it's only cd 30 (if going by date of mc) for me but I have always run on a 28/29 day cycle and normally have signs of it coming a few days in advance. So either my cycle has been thrown or we got lucky.... My cp is still high and soft too so I don't know.... The mc last month has left me lost as to what to expect.

 

[ajarvis]

steph I think she's coming in the morning based on spotting, and how I feel tonight - crampy, sore lower back etc. If not I'll test Sunday morning!

 

[jaspie]

Hi guys, thought I'd stick my head in. I was an August Firefly but unfortunately had a mmc discovered at the 12 week scan in 27th Jan, my baby had died at 8 weeks
I had my erpc 2 days ago and am having very little bleeding and pain so far, just cramps and minor spotting really. I've started temping again and even though I'm fully expecting this cycle to be all over the place, i like knowing what's going on in there. I think we're going to wait for my first period before ttc again.
Good to meet you all even in these sad circumstances. Hoping we all get our rainbows soon

 

[NDH]

Sonsorry for your reason for being here but we're happy to have you.

 

[sunshine2014]

Good morning ladies. Hope you are all enjoying the weekend. Dh was supposed to be going to vermont this weekend for work, but there's a big snow storm coming so he's staying put yay!! I got back from Florida so my inner body is still warm lol.

Jaspie - I agree with NDH, so sorry you're here but happy to have you all the same. I missed you from the fireflies group, so it will be nice to catch up and see how you are doing

 

[NinjaPanda]

Well, AF finally came this morning. Kind of bittersweet... I am glad to have the fresh start after everything but at the same time was kind of hoping we got lucky, especially with DH being gone for so long now. I cried to my mom this morning though. Even though the mc happened a month ago it just felt so "official" today.

 

[ajarvis]

Welcome jaspie! Sorry you have to be here. I had pretty much the same timing of miscarriage but a month earlier. Just waiting on AF at the moment.

ninja sorry she's here, but now you can look to the next month!

 

[NinjaPanda]

Nah, I'm out for this month. Won't get to see DH till middle of March

 

[nugget80]

Happy weekend ladies...! I am now a week past erpc and would love to say I jave recovered well (physically I think I have) but I'm thinking whole thing has triggered a nasty relapse with my multiple sclerosis. I have been assured by ms nurse I should be fine to ttc still even on the steroids and pain meds as risks are small compared to not taking them and recovery for me! One positive this week is gp has taken into account my chemical so 3 years trying and 3 losses means she is referring us to a specialist. I k ow this offers no guarantees but feels like a step in right direction.

 

[CelticNiamh]

Hi guys, thought I'd stick my head in. I was an August Firefly but unfortunately had a mmc discovered at the 12 week scan in 27th Jan, my baby had died at 8 weeks
I had my erpc 2 days ago and am having very little bleeding and pain so far, just cramps and minor spotting really. I've started temping again and even though I'm fully expecting this cycle to be all over the place, i like knowing what's going on in there. I think we're going to wait for my first period before ttc again.
Good to meet you all even in these sad circumstances. Hoping we all get our rainbows soon

Hi Jaspie so sorry for your loss but I am glad you found us

Nah, I'm out for this month. Won't get to see DH till middle of March

Oh no NinjaPanda

Happy weekend ladies...! I am now a week past erpc and would love to say I jave recovered well (physically I think I have) but I'm thinking whole thing has triggered a nasty relapse with my multiple sclerosis. I have been assured by ms nurse I should be fine to ttc still even on the steroids and pain meds as risks are small compared to not taking them and recovery for me! One positive this week is gp has taken into account my chemical so 3 years trying and 3 losses means she is referring us to a specialist. I k ow this offers no guarantees but feels like a step in right direction.

Hi Nugget hope your MS settles soon and glad your GP is going to take it further


Hey every one, been a very busy few days barely getting time to get on here

As for me, still spotting a little turned brown still more normal cm and the spotting mixed in, I think its AF trying to come, I do not trust my temps at all think they are all over the place thanks to the MC so hopefully next cycle I will know exactly where I am