Your probably right Tainted. People skinny, overweight and in between suffer from it. It's hard for me on some of these pregnancy threads. In the beginning some of the ladies were talking about eating fast food burgers and milk shakes, grilled cheese sandwiches in mass quantities, it was so hard not to give them a reminder of how your really shouldn't gain much in the beginning and how it can contribute to the condition though. A lot of them have since gained 12-15 lbs already.
Blessed- hope you do well with the muscle shots, I hear they are quite painful, I've only ever had the arm ones, not in the butt. Oh the things we do to have babies
hope all the cramming is effective and well retained...so what day do you start the boards? Yes I wear maternity clothes and some regular still. I'm at the stage where most normal tops look funny, sit short in the front, or aren't designed for the bigger boobs
Mirna- i hope things go well for you with IUI. It's a really easy and painless procedure for most, maybe cramping but that can also be from ovulating. Are you monitored for O or do you just do OPK's?
ER - any word on the house?
Sugarlys- bugs aren't too bad here, except for at dusk, pretty much a give-in. It rained here this morning. Was hoping it'd stay nice. Ah well, three days of great weather I can't really complain.
I have to apologise for the depressive moments of comments generally about K and I. Not that anything is different, it's all true. I've spent lots of time trying to 'fix things' with being selfless and thinking of his needs above everything else, then trying to talk to him in which case things improve for a day or two only. I'm just tired of trying so hard and I really want some reciprocation, I think it's about time to focus on what I need. I'm not getting it
I am very level headed about this now which scares me as I used to be so emotional and dramatic to me, as it meant so much. I'm thankful I can say this on here freely, as I have no one to talk to about it all. Last time I said something to my girlfriend she told me, 'nothing is gonna change, You'll have to just suck it up and take it, and just do things yourself' and pretty coldly I might add. Sonthat ruined me having a shoulder to cry on in times of need. I do love him, deep inside but how's he's been acting is not that person. Sometimes I see a hint of it come out, but I wonder is he changing? Am I changing too?
Anyways on to happier things. I will focus on my pregnancy and avoid fights with him as stress is bad for me. I will talk to him at the right moment and if he cannot be respectful and calm talking to me, then I will stop talking and re-evaluate. Thanks for being an ear ladies, you don't even have to reply to me, just knowing your there is enough
