welcome Fl00b! :wave: i will add you to the front. I hope you get your pink bundle once the time comes
There is much to learn about gender swaying, if you intend on doing that. There isn't just any ONE thing that sways more than the other. So that could be why one gains weight and gets a girl and one loses weight and gets a boy. It's not just one thing that sways, its a bunch of different things that sway and depending on if you want boy or girl that will depend on what needs to happen. For instance if you want a girl they recommend low sperm count (sways pink), LE diet (sways pink), a more acidic vagina (sways pink), more acidic seman (sways pink), amongst various other things. Sometimes sways work, and sometimes they dont. That is lesson one of gender swaying- it is NOT guarantee to work
HOWEVER, it is scientific fact that you can tip your odds and make them better than 50-50 by swaying, it just doesn't mean it always goes in your favor.
When i first started swaying i was all about Shuttles, but the more i learned the more..well i learned that it's not really accurate. Apparently what dr. shuttles thought he saw with the difference between the male sperm and the female sperm were inaccurate only bc what he was looking at was a sperm that had not yet shed vs one that had. There are differences in X and Y sperm, but not the differences that he was seeing. As for timing, like i said, its not just any ONE thing that sways pink or blue. Yes, some ppl the theory could seem accurate and for others O+12 seems accurate, but there are many many factors for swaying and timing is merely but one. With that said, its not so much the timing, when swaying pink or blue, but mostly what happens to the sperm. One reason why dr. shuttles could be right about the timing for a girl isn't bc of what he had thought, but it can still be right just for a different reason. The real reason why that timing could possibly work out is because the further from ov. you are the more sperm that dies off. Whenever there is a lowered sperm count, it sways pink. Fact. But as i said that is merely one ingredient. you have to add plenty to create the perfect environment and even then sometimes sways just dont work....i wont keep going on. There is really sooo much research you need to do before swaying its unreal. I ended up switching my sway tactic the month I got my BFP because i was learning even more.....and for starters STAY AWAY from the In-Gender site! There are so many inaccurate things on there it's unreal. My DS2 was a result of a failed In-gender sway and apparently that wasn't uncommon! Now maybe he was just meant to be and my sway would have failed either way, but once i switched to the Gender Dreaming site, i quickly realized the misinformation i was given to sway pink for DS2, was the perfect storm for swaying
No wonder I had a boy! Bc what IG told me to do for a girl is what GD proved worked for a boy
A lot of the info on the Gender Dreaming site was actually proven and had quite a bit of scientific findings to back it up. Im not advocating for or against either site, but i just dont want ppl to get the wrong information if they are going to sway.
! We probably will start TTC next year x
(not that girls are bad; but I want a blue bundle)
