General chatter while we wait (and commentary on the "pull out method")

[claireybell]

Cpeace has af stayed away - anymore Tests your end??

 

[DobbyForever]

Yes I want to see tears from peace and Tex!

Yeah but the supervisors report was that he was perfectly fine with A but that’s because he was being watched and reported. I hope they see that he is still abusive when he thinks he can get away with it but idk

 

[Cppeace]

Temp plummeted this morn, No AF yet but decided not to test with that drop. We shall see if it shows today or by morn.

 

[TexasRider]

Ugh sorry peace- that’s what I’m waiting on too. I know that if I’m gonna start my AF then I will have the temp drop of doom the day before...

 

[Cppeace]

my temp is variable sometimes no drop, sometimes drop day before sometimes day of... in almost 3 years I've seen pretty much every pattern at this point.

 

[gigglebox]

Blah cpp sorry for the neg tests and temp drop

Dobs fx everything works pit for the best for A. Have you told your direct supervisor about the transfer yet?

Tex oooooh fingers sooooo tightly crossed for you! When is af due?

 

[claireybell]

Oh Cpeace so sorry temp dropped right down.. it may suprise you yet & randomly jump back up so fx

Fx you get to test tomorrow or Saturday Tex - af you will stay away!!

 

[TexasRider]

Af should be due Saturday if i have a 14 day lp this time. I’ve had a 15 and 16 day lp before so we shall see.

 

[shaescott]

CP sorry about temp drop

Dobs I also hope they’ll see his true colors in court

That’s all I can really remember, sorry. Had my A&P final today. It felt like it went really well.

Fight with SO was resolved.
And as Dobs said, it did indeed result in some make up lol

Though the was not what it could’ve been because we had to stop and finish manually, he’s been having awful abdominal pain. This happened two months ago, it was so bad he went to the hospital both times. First time they said he had a stomach bug and sent him home. This time they did a CT and blood work and his entire gastrointestinal tract is inflamed, his white count is elevated, and when I do that thing where I tap on his stomach lightly through my other hand, it hurts him. They want him to see a GI doctor. My mom is concerned about ulcerative colitis, which possibly connects to his other chronic pain issue with his bones and joints and muscles, he could possibly have ankylosis spondylitis as well, the two diseases often go together. We’ll see I guess.

 

[DobbyForever]

Ugh i’m Spotting. I’m not ready to have my first PP period

 

[claireybell]

When will he see the GI specialist Shae- will he need referring from Dr first? Hope hes ok.. glad you guys sorted it out though

Eurhhhh first af! It may be suprisingly light Dobs, my ones were after bf’ing

 

[kittykat7210]

CP sorry about temp drop

Dobs I also hope they’ll see his true colors in court

That’s all I can really remember, sorry. Had my A&P final today. It felt like it went really well.

Fight with SO was resolved.
And as Dobs said, it did indeed result in some make up lol

Though the was not what it could’ve been because we had to stop and finish manually, he’s been having awful abdominal pain. This happened two months ago, it was so bad he went to the hospital both times. First time they said he had a stomach bug and sent him home. This time they did a CT and blood work and his entire gastrointestinal tract is inflamed, his white count is elevated, and when I do that thing where I tap on his stomach lightly through my other hand, it hurts him. They want him to see a GI doctor. My mom is concerned about ulcerative colitis, which possibly connects to his other chronic pain issue with his bones and joints and muscles, he could possibly have ankylosis spondylitis as well, the two diseases often go together. We’ll see I guess.

Oh shame! I’m so sorry! That’s the bowel form of crohns. I know how painful that can be and how bad it is, the good thing is that treatment is amazing and can mean they can live basically pain free if they avoid a few things. I’d avoid onions/sweet corn/mushrooms/spice because they are what cause the most pain as they are the hardest foods to digest.

 

[gigglebox]

Teally kit? Onions and mushrooms?! I am so surprised to read that, i had no idea they are difficult to digest.

Shae I hope whatever the issue is, there is a way for him to get relief! Glad y'all made up.

Dobs hope your first ppp is easy. Mine was brutal, but I didn't make it as long as you pumping so hopefully that makes a difference for the better. Just in case, stock up with some very absorbent pads...

 

[kittykat7210]

Teally kit? Onions and mushrooms?! I am so surprised to read that, i had no idea they are difficult to digest.

Shae I hope whatever the issue is, there is a way for him to get relief! Glad y'all made up.

Dobs hope your first ppp is easy. Mine was brutal, but I didn't make it as long as you pumping so hopefully that makes a difference for the better. Just in case, stock up with some very absorbent pads...

Yeh, both hubby and SIL have crohns and have to avoid these foods or they get really bad pain!

 

[claireybell]

Sweetcorn being hard to digest - is this why we see it in our poop? Lol! I know that’s childish to ask but it would make sense.. White Onion gives me terrible gut ache & trots its weird, red onion is lesser..

Everything seems to be triggering my teary hormones today & sometimes nothing! Was just driving back from shops & thought how lovely n sunny it is & how this is first time il be pg all through summer into Winter - then i got all upset HORMONES HAHA!

 

[bdb84]

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Cpp- I'm sorry about the temp drop You aren't out yet, though! Fx

Tex- you have so much self control when it comes to testing!

Cb- how is your BIL doing?

Dob- I get so frustrated at the court system. Each case should be independent of all others. If A was a devoted, loving parent, I'd be all for him having equal rights to his child, but it's obviously not the case and I hate that you are having to deal with this. A deserves so much better, but thank goodness he has you!

 

[bdb84]

AFM- I'm feeling good for the most part. I am having a bit more bouts of slight nausea, but I truly feel silly even beginning to complain about those because they are so fleeting. My next appt/scan is the 23rd. It feels forever away. I just want everything to check out perfectly so I can truly embrace this pregnancy. I'm very hopeful and feel like everything is okay.. but there's always going to be a small bit of doubt because terrible things happen.

DH is about to begin night shift on a turnaround tomorrow and he won't have any days off until the job is complete. Maybe a month or so. The extra money will be nice so we can begin saving for this baby.

 

[TexasRider]

Drop of doom today. Still above cover but AF should be here in a couple of days at the latest

 

[claireybell]

Oooh another 2 & a bit wks then Bdb til scan hehe!! I have weeks left yet uhhh! Glad your only getting slight fleeing bits if nausea & not full bout, i feel terrible 24/7 atm, i know i shouldnt complain but i hate feeling sick Lol!

BIL is doing tons better thankyou he has an mri scan today to see whats going on & looking for improvement! They’ve said the artery/vein rupture in the neck was due to an old looking blood clot that suddenly just got blocked & when it ruptured a tiny bit of clot went to his brain, but his physios doing well & speech is loads better, its the vein thing they are worried about with flying so it stands on how the mri looks today.. they given high doses of blood thinners & de-clotters so all is good on that front he sent a pic of himself to SO couple days ago & looked all cheery in his wheelchair which was lovely to see

 

[claireybell]

Its not a huge drop in temp Tex, never lose faith hun