Tex. I'm so sorry.
Gig- for me, going from 1-2 was the hardest. I do attribute a good portion to that due to the fact that DD1 was so clung to me. Exclusively nursed (would never take a bottle of pumped milk) and never slept.
Then DD2 came along and she was, seriously, the most happy, content baby. The transition from 2-3 wasn't nearly as hard as I was expecting, and that's also coming from someone who had a full-time two parent household for kiddos 1 & 2, to just a one parent full-time household with my third.
I do notice a huge difference in the noise level and chaos level when DSS is here. Idk if it's going from 3-4, or if he's just not fully used to our rules and routines here.. but the chaos and noice level increases ten-fold. He's a very well mannered child, so it's not like he's hard in that aspect.. but he's just a very LOUD little boy.
And his forte is creating as big of a mess as possible. Lol.
Anyways, I'm rambling.
Last night DS spent the night with a buddy, DD1 went to my sister's house (along with my sister's MIL) to make mickey mouse ears for today's Disney on Ice, and DD2, DH and I went to a crawfish boil for a couple of hours. I'm very excited to take the girls to Disney on Ice this afternoon. They're going to enjoy it so much. DS has zero desire to go this year so he's going to stay behind with my dad (my mom is going with us) and have some 'boy time'.