General chatter while we wait (and commentary on the "pull out method")

[shaescott]

Flueks I also hear “yanny”. My parents hear “Gary” so that’s weird.

ETA: hopefully I’ll see SO more, yes. We’re much closer in distance during summer. I’m working up the will power to get a summer job rn. Been sitting at home doing nothing. It’s driving me mad haha

 

[claireybell]

Weirdly someone on Facebook posted about this Yanny/Laurel thing & I haven’t a clue what its all about?! Il have to now investigate lol!

Kit enjoy your Vow renewal girly sounds like lotsa fun & do it while you can get the money before another bambino pops along at a later date I hated it when Riley stopped napping, although it took me agggggges to get him to nap, it was a very short lived thing.

Gigs i could actually see something on the first photo you uploaded but i assumed my line eye lol as its early but ya know you never know & im hoping its the very beginning of some highly addictive + line porn for you hehe!

I saw my newly pg bestie yesterday & was trying to get her to pee on another Digi test .. she said she may do if she gets to the shop.. she asked how nany i do (HAHA) i said loads! & had i of not got the highest reading on my Digi, i would of done another one

Flueks ye never know, somethimes the months when we least expect it we get that lil suprise!

Ah Tex men are bloody weird arent they??! Obvs its because your looking more fantastic & they assume others are paying lotsa attention #eyeroll Glad u sorted it out though! Wow 2nd place is still amazing well done you you shpuld celebrate by having a fancy lunch or meal out & buy some new clothes

No plans as such for Nualas birthday, Riley’s is before hers in July, he wants soft play laser tag, his friend had a party like it earlier in the year & he loved it bless him. Nualas birthday is on a Saturday this year so if weathers nice we nay have a bbq/family party or something like that, thing is my sisters 40th is on August 10th - day before Nualas birthday & shes having her all day bbq/drinky thing on Nualas birthday, so not sure what we’re doing tbh..

Had a dream i we t & this harmony test done & they didnt do the NT bit & scanned me for 5 mins, i kicked right off Lol all i kept saying in my dream was ‘you thieving b^**^>ds lol! Charging £399 for that

 

[claireybell]

Shae i like both colours for your hair hun

 

[gigglebox]

Shae just curious but do you and SO have any plans to move in together before marriage? I like both hair colors on you, but definitely partial to red. That said i think the blonde for warmer months is nice.

Fluek congrats on 2nd! How much did you lose total? Sorry about hubby being crazy. Didn't he know about the weight loss competition? And just to be sure...HE's being faithful, right? I just feel like when people are accusatory sometimes they are doing something wrong. But sounds like you're looking dayum good and he's being a little insecure!

So what is bridezilla trying to pull now?

Kit any dresses you're looking at that you can share with the class?

Cb are their bdays a month apart? First bdays. Are really for parents more than the kid. The important thing is having family around so def don't stress about it!

 

[kittykat7210]

Shae just curious but do you and SO have any plans to move in together before marriage? I like both hair colors on you, but definitely partial to red. That said i think the blonde for warmer months is nice.

Fluek congrats on 2nd! How much did you lose total? Sorry about hubby being crazy. Didn't he know about the weight loss competition? And just to be sure...HE's being faithful, right? I just feel like when people are accusatory sometimes they are doing something wrong. But sounds like you're looking dayum good and he's being a little insecure!

So what is bridezilla trying to pull now?

Kit any dresses you're looking at that you can share with the class?

Cb are their bdays a month apart? First bdays. Are really for parents more than the kid. The important thing is having family around so def don't stress about it!

You guys are going to think I’m crazy, I’m going full bridal 😂😂 tried on a few, only 1 I liked though

 

[kittykat7210]

This is the back...

I didn’t get to wear a wedding dress last time so I’m sort of wanting the whole shebang 😂

 

[shaescott]

Gigs that’s the general plan but we don’t have anything set yet because who knows what will happen with jobs etc. I could get a job anywhere but his field of work isn’t like that, generally. We’ll see what happens. When I know, I’ll let you ladies know. Might be a few years though. When I start wedding planning I’ll probably talk about it quite a bit on here haha

Kitty not crazy at all, that dress is beautiful!!!

 

[kittykat7210]

Flueks I agree with Clairey, we conceived eves when we weren’t trying!

Shae you are welcome to talk about anything on here! I’ve always loved weddings!! Maybe that’s why I’m treating this more like a wedding than I should

 

[shaescott]

Kitty I’ve always loved weddings as well! Though not always going to them considering I’ve been to so few, I’ve always loved the thought of planning my own and having my own. I’ve only been to 3 weddings in my entire life, the second and third were late teens and older, the first I was barely 5 and I was a flower girl.

Considering my age, it’ll make sense when I say that at the first wedding I was bored as hell. I mean, I was 5, and I was standing at the side of the arch thing the entire ceremony, which included a pagan handfasting. It was like an hour long, which is insane for a 5 year old to stand still.

Second wedding I was older, it was a few years ago I think, funny enough it was the daughter of the woman who was getting married when I was 5 (she was 10 or so when her mom got married to her stepdad). Hers was also a pagan ceremony, but not as long, though I didn’t mind length so much considering I was closer to the age I am now.

Most recent was my cousin once removed’s wedding (her mom is my cousin). It was last summer. It was absolutely beautiful, the ceremony was the perfect length, and there was like constantly food afterwards, passed appetizers and stationary gourmet cheese displays until dinner, and an open bar (I asked for pineapple juice and the bartender tried to card me thinking I meant juice mixed with alcohol. I asked for “VIRGIN pineapple juice” for the rest of the evening as a joke with that guy). I really hope I can stretch an open bar for my wedding. It feels weird to have a cash bar when people travelled to see you. Anyway, she’s now pregnant with a boy, they’re super excited.

Sooo yeah, I cared more about my own wedding as a kid, was a bit indifferent to other people’s at the time. Now I love both. But of course I’m most excited to plan my own. I can’t wait to drag my mom and my friends to help me try on dresses. Pretty much everything else is less important to me, I haven’t exactly been dreaming my whole life about the most extravagant wedding cake or the best flower arrangements, but I definitely have been dreaming my whole life about finding my dream wedding dress.

 

[claireybell]

Wow Kitty i LOVE that dress, you look fabulous in it! Go all out hun

Yes Riley & Nualas birthdays are like literally 4 wks apart lol 9th July & 11th August - although she was due 30th July & she went the full 12 days overdue! i think i secretly wanted summer babies as my birthday being March, the weathers pants & usually rainy so at least summer ones you can be abit more outdoorsy hehe!

Oooh i had my ultrsound NHS letter through thus morning hehe official 12wk scan date is 8th June @ 3pm, trying to change the day as il be working that Friday but if i cant, hey ho

Gigs have u tested today yet?

I saw a fb video link about all this Yanny/Laurel thing.. i hear Yanny & to me it sounds nothing like Laurel but i guess thats the test right? People hear diff things..

Im up Eye unit atm waiting to collect Rileys glasses hehe! Hes gonna look so cute, il snap a pic later after i pick him up from school & upload it, hes so excited about them, i had a call an hr ago to say they were ready for collection.

 

[DobbyForever]

Sorry skimming but we’re SBAC testing and court stuff is exhausting and my ex is pissing me off with his million excuses trying to pin skipping visitation on me.

Bright side we have an all day field trip so i’m Pawning the kids off on adults and getting A some geeky swag from The Tech Museum of Innovation lol don’t stalk me jk

Shae cute hair I like it both ways I do like the darker contrast but it could just be the lighting and make up

Gigs I see a shadow and so does my photoshop

I was granted my shortening time so instead of having to wait until Late August for trial I get a chance to see the judge in a month to argue my case about supervision. My attorney says the fact I got a hearing in a month with how impacted the calendar is means they really took my declaration seriously that my ex could cause irreparable harm to A so hopefully they really listen at the hearing

 

[gigglebox]

Heck yeah Dobs, FINALLY being taken seriously! That is a great update. And woohoo field trip! Hey hey summer is right around the corner!

Omg kit!!!! You are a beautiful bride! I LOVE the dress! The front and the back. Omg those buttons...

Cb awwww little man glasses! So cute.

Eh yeah I tested today but it's super negative. I'm pretty bummed because I certainly FEEL pregnant but maybe it's just bad food idk but I've never seen a positive before 8dpo so we'll see I guess...

 

[claireybell]

Gigs if you are preggers hun its probs too early for hcg to be detected, when are you 9dpo?

Aww check out Rileys specs

https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=1034097&stc=1&d=1526568198

 

[claireybell]

Omg Dobs hes trying to blame him not seeing his son on you? Wtf! Ok then mate..! He has no chance hun

 

[claireybell]

All my tests at 8dpo were blank Neg aswell, its amazing how just those 24hrs makes a diff on a test! Eeeee im so excited for you atm

 

[gigglebox]

Awww look at him!!! He's so handsome! Did he get to pick them out?

I'm only 7dpo today. I'm going to use a FRER tomorrow, then I might not get another chance to test until Monday! But you know what they say... "when there's a will, there's a way"

 

[claireybell]

I like that saying ha ha you could always take the other Frer with you in a bag & pee whilst on a break disc golfing? Heh heh

How sensitive are those Cheapie ones u got?

Yeah he picked them himself, very cute, hes so chuffed with them lol

 

[gigglebox]

Lol!!! That would be some kind of desperation but I might have to!

Ugh just drank my ice coffee and feel like I'm gonna puke...

 

[Flueky88]

Shae, it can be hard to be motivated to find a summer job. It's ironic that if you want to do all sorts of fun things in the summer, you have all the time but not the $$. Other side is you have a job, but then have no time.

CB isn't funny when some women only take like 1 hpt! I mean I want to see progression lol.

Oh I mixed up thei birthdays. Riley's glasses look great! He did a great job picking them out.

Your dream is hillarious. I have strange vidid dreams without pregnancy, but they get even stranger when I'm pregnant.

Gigs, I think you confused me with Tex. It's okay though

Sorry about bfn today. Still in it though

Kit your dress is beautiful!! you look amazing in it.

Dobby, sounds like court is headed in the right direction for you. I believe the court will see through that jerk.

How much longer til summer break and you get all that time with A?

As far as weddings, I didn't like them as a child. I haven't been to many as an adult, but I enjoy them now.

Yanny vs Laurel. I heard Yanny during the daytime, then Laurel at night. Pretty interesting how people interpret the frequency.

AFM, well I may be 1dpo. Temp shot up to 97.91 which is definitely my post O range. It may just be a fluke, but I'll find outin the next couple days. May have missed my surge with opks. I tested Tuesday around 1 p.m. (almost positive then). Yesterday I didn't test until 630 p.m. If I did O, my timing is 5-O, 4-O, 2-O. Not good odds which is fine with me, but I'll test for the hell of it.

 

[claireybell]

Flueks 2-0 is pretty good & given you dtd three days in a row, more than enough swimmers for eggy fx my lovely! & omg I know just 1 pee stick & thats it? You almost want to pee on one for them haha!

Gigs desperation will win through lol do it hope u not feeling too yukky now after that iced coffee..

Did someone mention weird dreams? Ive probs missed that bit, i have quite ‘fruity’ dreams when ive been pg previously.. not had any weird ones so far yet, my funniest was when pg with Riley i was trying to dry hump a lamp post & i cant remember much else about it, funny that