I was showering and having sexy time!
J, so many questions! 1, why did you divorce hubby #1? 2, wtf is with boyfriend?! Does he still want a relationship? 3, what business do you have?
I just had a thought that maybe this website has high profile members who hide behind screen names....wouldn't that be crazy?
It's you, isn't it Dobs? Your life on here is made up and you're actually Emma Watson....?
So sex was a flop tonight. I mean, it was really awesome....but hubs pulled
then when we were finished he said, "soon moon, soon....but not yet."
And now i have to explain that i used to work in workers' comp and we once had a claimant named Soon Moon and now we reference it every once in awhile
So my only hope is early ovulation or a change of mind of hubs by this weekend
It's looking bleak over here
Gigs- Hubby 1 and I were together 11 yrs, from early 20's to early 30's.
Both my older kids from him.
Basically, I was a firefighter medic, he was a medic...money got tight over the years, but we worked it out. Planned to have more kids but by the time we were 10 yrs in I wanted to only work 2 days a week at ER so I could breed and show dogs fulltime. We had also just moved to a huge country home on 2 acres- that's when I wanted to farm Alpacas.
Well he hadn't decided what he wanted to be when he grew up lol.
During the last 5 yrs of the marriage, he left medic work to help run his father's VERY successful Paint biz. He hated it, but seriously making $1200 a week M-f was ALOT compared to 3-4 24 hrs shifts a week for $28k/yr and mandatory OT in storms- not to mention constant exposure to diseases and running in burning bldgs
He swore he was going to something else- so for 5 yrs I was stuck at the FD when I really wanted to be showing my dogs and farming.
My dreams got put on hold for him to go from Medic to Paint Co Co-owner to apply for AirForce then back out, Take realtor class, and refuse to take final, then sign up for Army and back out ( he was in before) then finally Sign up for Border Patrol, and after MONTHS of backgrounds on the entire family ( my mom has been a US citizen from Portugal since 1976...they couldn't find any record LMAO) after alllll that he backed out of that too
I was very over it since I was the only one carrying the whole fams insur all those years, and he was making me stuck.
So we built our dream home ( 3000+sf brand new for $180k) after selling the farmhouse...and sold the dreamhome to an Investor from Miami for $290k (2006 market high). Made $100k profit, and paid off all creditcars, car loans etc, and both divorced on our own with $30k ea in the bank
All my preplanning- he didn't want to keep building.
Well I am still debt free and credit card free...he remarried, she has NEVER had to work, he Joined the AirForce and is a high rank officer now, annnnnd he has alot of credit card debt and 2 car payments again
I used to be bitter he was willing to get a divorce over letting me have my farm and dog biz, but now that he is in debt and stuck again
Karma is a biotch, but we get along just fine still.
Dude really>??
and drag his ass on the TTC bus in a few days when you have Mom watch the boy child!! Then TAKE IT from him lol...maybe try some Fifty Shades and tie him to the bed, so he can't pull out lol
