General chatter while we wait (and commentary on the "pull out method")

[autumnal]

What a cute little fella! Congratulations

 

[HalfricanMa]

@HalfricanMa YAY ANSWERS!! That is still super weird, especially never having a bleed, but heck yes to ovulation!! This will be the most bizarre scenario if you end up pregnant in two weeks lol But either way yay!! Sounds like things are moving in the right direction. Personally with the answers and all that I'd forgo the ultrasound but that's up to you of course! Fasting's not so bad. I actually have gone 3 days before for health reasons and it sucked doing it but I felt absolutely amazing afterward. Hubby does period fasts, usually 5-7 days but the longest was 12 O_O He has much better willpower than I do lol. Also what a lovely surprise from hubby!!! yay!

@Jules8 what the heck, why would someone cut you off without explanation? How strange. That's too bad. Glad you found support at church. I'm the same, I have always had/prefer a small friend circle mostly because I just can't keep up with maintaining that many friendships. OMG, car accidents are so jarring!! I'm glad you're ok but goodness that's scary. Sorry about the ultrasound That is always scary when you get diagnosed with anything abnormal, but I have found things usually go fine. There's a woman in my due date group that got that same diagnoses and had the same problem as you, not much info, and in fact the dr that found it had to refer her to another ob who knew more about it because they didn't. From personal risk where everything turned out fine -- the negative sides are obvious, it obviously adds to the nerves to be considered high risk. On the plus side, you do get more scans and lots of pics of baby, and it's nice to really watch them grown. remember the most likely scenario is all will be totally fine!!

AFM....I got a call yesterday from my friend, the one that I mentioned the other day had the weird one word "congratulations" response (well, him and his wife but I'm closer to him, we've been friends for a very long time). Our call was cut short because he had a work call he had to take, but he did congratulate me over the phone and explained he'd been crazy busy with work and out of town a ton and living out of a hotel basically 5-6 days a week for weeks now. So it was nice to get an explanation, and we're trying to work out how/when we can get the families together soon. So that was a nice surprise!

Also I had my "12 week" ultrasound yesterday! Baby was technically 11+5 but measured spot on at 12. He was also about 2 days ahead at 8 weeks so not sure if my date is wrong or he's just measuring a touch ahead, but either way it's consistent anyway! He looked perfect. OB also varified they did do a CBC when I had my bloods done (I didn't know for sure because the script just said something vague like "prenatal workup") and my numbers are pristine. That was such a huge relief after all my scares earlier this year (I had low platelets, anemia, low potassium, low sodium, and other red flags). She said "it's amazing what the human body can do". No kidding! I mean that was only 5 months ago. I'm so, so happy and relieved. She's going to re-check levels at 28 weeks because I have a history of gestational thrombocytopenia (low platelets last time I was pregnant) but hopefully all will be well again then. I hate lab work, it makes me so nervous! But for now we're good so I'm happy. Anyway she said baby looks great; it was technically a "mini anatomy scan" and they checked everything, and all was good with baby. I have my full scan rigth after Christmas, and if all goes well that will be the last I see of baby until he arrives!

I finally, FINALLY feel like this is happening! Ahhh holy crap another baby! I am so happy it's another boy honestly. I was walking around target yesterday and getting overwhelmed by girl stuff lol. Dang they come with a lot of accessories! I mean all the flashy clothes, purses, hair stuff....I'm sure it's all very cute and fun but I'll be honest, I'm glad I can give mine a shovel and let them dig outside to keep them entertained And when I need my girlie fix, I'm super lucky to have a cutie of a neice to dote on. And oh my is she girlie!! She loves purses and sparkles and HEELS (yes she's a shoe girl already) and she's only 2!

Ok will post the u/s pics in a sec....

Fasting is not bad, i know. But I also have hypoglycemia and nurse too. In June my sugar dropped so low and so unexpectedly. I was in my car about to leave our property to put up balloons at the end of the street for my son’s birthday. I stopped at our gate and let my husband know that that was all i was doing and wouldn’t be long. Then I said “woah” and threw it in park. All i remember is him throwing his hand in the window to catch my shoulder as he opened my door. I came to on the couch in the house. He carried me inside and gave me orange juice, lots of raisins and chicken. My bg has been in the 30s before. Lol so fasting is sort of a different story for me.
I’ll wake at 5 and eat oatmeal exactly 8 hrs before. Oatmeal keeps blood sugar steady for a long time. Its what I used to eat at bedtime before I night weaned the baby. I wasnt always this bad but my first pregnancy I lost my vision for over an hour before I recovered. That was around 35 weeks. But it’s also something I inherited. It is nice having some answers and i considered not doing the u/s but i’ll ask my doc what she thinks. There’s still some parts unanswered like why the positive urine tests but negative blood. I also considered if waiting for the morning one 2 weeks from now would be better or drive me insane because it’ll be the end of the 2ww.

 

[HalfricanMa]

@gigglebox I’m so glad you’re feeling more excited and happy about having another baby boy! It does sound like your friends didnt mean to seem rude, rather they just have a lot on their plate.

 

[gigglebox]

Ahh I see the dilemma. Hopefully your dr can offer some better insight/guidance!

 

[DobbyForever]

Half African sorry. It’s good you have an answer + bonus ovulation!

Sorry teacher grabbed A at the daycare and it hit the fan. My younger brother had emergency surgery for cauda equina. Just kind of done.

 

[HalfricanMa]

@DobbyForever that’s a lot to be handling. So sorry!

Im still doing ultrasound because none of the opks are coming up positive so idk if the doc reading the hormone levels has it accurate about ovulating any time soon. The test strips haven't changed at all. Im pretty disappointed.

Also, my husband’s military retirement ceremony has completely fallen through. Apparently after nearly 23 yrs of service and our family dealing with many deployments, a short ceremony planned for him is too much to ask. SO done with military! The ceremony was supposed to be tomorrow. They told us Friday at 3:45pm that nobody has the key to the venue, they cant get a hanger, and basically all we have is the honor guard booked. We’re just cancelling for now and hoping to reschedule.

 

[gigglebox]

Dobby say whaaaaa?! What happened??

Halfrican that’s BS. It’s the least hey can do to sort it out without stressing you guys to deal with it. I’m mad on your behalf!

 

[HalfricanMa]

I definitely have emetophobia, overwhelmingly intense anxiety pertaining to vomiting. I’ve tried counseling before and may need to again. DS is having a difficult night and, though he hasnt puked yet, i’m thinking he will. Thank God for my hubby being compassionate and letting me be in the baby’s room for the rest of the night.

The fear definitely has me thinking differently including limiting what and when I eat. Right now is the second period of questioning if we should have more children or do i need to stay with just the two. Idk how i’ll manage if i have morning sickness like my second pregnancy. And kids get sick. The more kids, the more puking. I love our kids so dearly and want to have more but I’m insanely afraid of the vomiting. It makes me shake.

I’ll be 1 year postpartum in a few days. My pre-pregnancy weight was 150 pounds, gained to about 183 pounds with the second pregnancy (a bit extra weight due to triple the normal amniotic fluid), and now I’m down to 134. Idk if thats ok. My inhibitions with eating really suck and i’ll have to fight it to grow a healthy, strong baby.
I overcame it for both pregnancies so i could reasonably do it again.
Do any of you ladies have experience with that? Mind you im fine with all other medical situations. I’ve done cpr on a man and broke a few ribs in the process, handled a circular saw in a man’s quad…i’m fine with blood, even a detached finger didnt bother me. It’s just throwing up.