Hello Whisper, just catching up! Yes, I'm in NRW in Wuppertal - we can make Essen Ikea in an hour by public transport... (that is so far the height of my Essen experience!
There is a good facebook group for the English speakers in Dusseldorf - it's very active, but I've found I've only managed to meet up with them once, it's a bit of a trek... There's an bilingual (English-German) playgroup in Essen on a Saturday afternoon, I'll see if I can find the details for that too...
I'm with you on the friend front, it's hard going. I've only been here 3 months though, so it's early days... I actually had one of the Kindergarten mums and her kids round for playdate this afternoon, which was good fun
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Stilted conversation, but we managed to chat about quite a lot of different things.
Ditto on the german course, I'm the only native English speaker, so it feels a bit lonely even there where everyone else has someone else from their homeland...
Where are you from originally Whisper? I'm Northern Irish...
On the name front, I was to be Kevin if I'd been a boy - yikes! We haven't chosen a name yet - I want something that will be pronounced the same in English and in German - not Jacob or Joshua or anything like that!
Anyway, the facebook group
https://www.facebook.com/groups/dusseldorfmamasandpapas/
If you find a lady called Annalyn on there, she's an American in Essen, and can tell you about the english playgroup - she has a 3 year old and a baby due in Sept. I think this is the group she goes too https://the-kids-club.de/