AngelofTroy
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I am SO angry with OH!
This morning Micah was pottering about in our bedroom as we were getting up. I lifted a picture off of our wall to get to the cupboard behind, and before I could stop him Micah pushed it over and the glass in the frame cracked. Panicking about him touching it I moved him away and asked OH to watch him while I cleared up the glass. Now admittedly I knew OH was running late for work but I couldn't think what else to do quickly as Micah was trying to climb past me to get to the mess. I asked OH again and he picked Micah up, put him in his own room (on his own) and shut the door and said "go to your room, mummy doesn't want you". Well of course he screamed at that and when I went to get him a minute later he was crying.
OH did apologise, but maintains that Micah only cried because he wanted to come back in whereas I think it might have been being told "mummy doesn't want you". I'm horrified that Micah might ever think I didn't want him around. OH thinks he won't have understood it but he understands a lot. I feel so angry at OH. I'm supposed to be ringing potential wedding venues for us today but to be honest I don't feel like it anymore. Am I overreacting?
This morning Micah was pottering about in our bedroom as we were getting up. I lifted a picture off of our wall to get to the cupboard behind, and before I could stop him Micah pushed it over and the glass in the frame cracked. Panicking about him touching it I moved him away and asked OH to watch him while I cleared up the glass. Now admittedly I knew OH was running late for work but I couldn't think what else to do quickly as Micah was trying to climb past me to get to the mess. I asked OH again and he picked Micah up, put him in his own room (on his own) and shut the door and said "go to your room, mummy doesn't want you". Well of course he screamed at that and when I went to get him a minute later he was crying.
OH did apologise, but maintains that Micah only cried because he wanted to come back in whereas I think it might have been being told "mummy doesn't want you". I'm horrified that Micah might ever think I didn't want him around. OH thinks he won't have understood it but he understands a lot. I feel so angry at OH. I'm supposed to be ringing potential wedding venues for us today but to be honest I don't feel like it anymore. Am I overreacting?