I just have to throw this out and I'm sorry for even relating the two...but people talk about well I was abused as a child so therefore swatting on the bottom is abuse in my eyes...ok fine that's your opinion...
I'm going to be very personal here and just go ahead and say something...I was sexually abused as a child, does that make anyone in my eyes a sexual predator for showing their children affection?..
My answer is no but I dealt with my issues in counselling long before even getting married...
That's what bothers me with some of these abuse comments being slung around carelessly..
I wouldnt take the comments so personally. I was one person who said that because i was abused i couldnt touch my daughter in that way. It is just my experience. Does that mean i think people who spank their kids are abusers? No.
Plenty of people who have been abused can go on to be abusers just as plenty who would never harm their child. Just as children of alcoholics will fall foul or never drink a drop due to their experiences.
None of this si about abuse though.
What the OP did was out of fright and fear-totally normal reaction.
But i will ask again (as no one answered before) aside incidences like the OP-when does a swat become an issue of the parent losing patience and control rather than discipline? I am asking because i see it as a fine line and i am sure i will be tested too!