Children will NOT be traumatised from a handful of smacked bottoms, they would be traumatised from being punched in the face, kicked in the stomach, starved etc etc.....ABUSE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This kind of bothered me alittle.
I wasnt punched in the face or kicked in the stomach or starved. But i was still abused phisicaly and emotionaly by my dad . there are different levels of physical abuse and it isnt always this obvious.
Just wanted to clear that up xx
thank you it kinda bothers me too, like you i wasnt hit in the face or kicked in the stomach or starved, my mom didnt stand up for me ever and would let the men of her life do as they pleased, I was in first grade and my step dad at the time would make me watch americas most wanted and tease me saying those men would get me knowing that i was afraid, made me sleep on hard tile floor in a sleeping bag beside the front door and bathroom door because i peed the bed, if they would have taken me to the dentist like they should have they would have found out the reason i wet the bed was due to my upper jaw was not wide enough and I needed an expander, I found this out after i moved out and got myself braces at the age of 19, the orthodontist told me it was a medical condition that causes headachs, earachs and wetting the bed in younge kids. He also made me lie about something I didnt do and because of it made me drink a cup of hot sause mixed with everything spicy we had in the spice cabinet along with castor oil, he said he wanted it to hurn me when i went to the bathroom and know what hell was like for lieing. and my mom just stood there and watched him do it and never said a word. and another time with a different step dad me and my sister told her he was molesting us and she made my sister watch me get beat with a wooden paddle till I had black and green bruses all over my butt I couldnt sit for 2 weeksmy mom said it would make her think twice before getting me to say something that wasnt true, I did fight her half way through just to turn around and tell her that what she was doing wasnt right i got beat harder, I still remember the anger in her eyes and i hate it, she said that she could never be happy didnt belive us, and didnt file reports on him until she was ready to divores him two year later, that being said the court didnt do anything they thought she was just trying to get back at him for something and me and my sister had to suffer. the list goes on of things that happend when i was a kid that was abusive whether it sounds like it or not thants why I think its scarry to be a parent and i take it one day at a time, its scarry to know that if you do one wrong thing in parenting that you could mess your childs whole life, but i wish people wouldnt be so quick to judge that only certain things in a specific catagory is child abuse, it comes in all shapes and forms and really can damage.