Arisa
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I dont know, I really do not want to spank my future child, as it does encourage hitting back because that is what I grew up with and my friends who have children that they spank quite alot tend to hit their parents back because they see that behaviour as normal. My mother smacked me across the face once and it took me a long time to forgive her for that and my dad used to smack us alot as kids and we were well behaved, it was for silly things like not cleaning up our room or not washing the dishes or if my sister and argued but we never threw tantrums or got violent with other children so I think the excessive spanking was way too much and it scared me for years so I do not want that for my child!!!
not that it makes you a bad mother or father for doing it, there are other ways to discipline a child though without getting out a belt or shoe or using your hand to whack them
not that it makes you a bad mother or father for doing it, there are other ways to discipline a child though without getting out a belt or shoe or using your hand to whack them