daydreaming22
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i am not accusing, that is my opinion which i am entitled too, and no if there is a mom on here who is proud of spanking her child then i can say my opinion.
yes in case of the OP it might have been an accident because of being scared.
i was hit, my head was beat on the floor and body dragged... and it starte with a spank. ... you are so much stronger. i call it abuse. because in my eyes it is. where do you cut the line, in my opinion before you raise your hand!
Do you think everyone's situation and outcome will be the same as yours? "head was beat on the floor and body dragged" IS ABUSE! A light tap on the rear is NOT ABUSE. Just because your dad was angry and abusive does not mean that all parents who "spank" are. Yes you are entitled to your opinion, but fact is fact...abuse is illegal, spanking is not.
She never called anyone dense for having a different opinion.
I am noticing a pattern here. Do people who think it's ok spank also seem to think it's ok to call people names, bully, and single people out?
She just shared a traumatic and heart-breaking event in her life, and you are attacking her and calling her dense.
No you're right, she called them abusive! I replied with utter shock at her previous statements and quickly realized that dense was not appropriate. It was removed before you could even reply to my post. If anyone is singling anyone out, it would have been mom ttc by responding to individuals who say they spank by telling them that it is abuse. My post was not an attack, Im simply saying that there is a difference and you cannot always apply your experiences to others' parenting techniques.