HELP me please!! TTC second cycle after my angel daughter

[LovingAngel]

I have my fingers crossed SUPER hard for you!

I got definite cross hairs today!!! Wahoo!

 

[Dill]

 

[LovingAngel]

How's your chart looking Dill??!! My temp shot up really high today but it's too soon for implantation I think.

 

[Dill]

It can hit as early as 6dpo!

Mine jumped up and is staying high. Since I didn't temp before ovulation, I don't know if my body was slow to go biphasic, or if it might be a triphasic jump. The suspense is killing me!

 

[LovingAngel]

It can hit as early as 6dpo!

Mine jumped up and is staying high. Since I didn't temp before ovulation, I don't know if my body was slow to go biphasic, or if it might be a triphasic jump. The suspense is killing me![/QUOTE

Oh I completely understand! What do you think of mine?

 

[Dill]

Whoa! Huuuge spike!

 

[AngelCasMama]

Hello. I'm sorry for your loss. I recently lost my daughter at 18 weeks and DH and i are TTC our rainbow too. Patience is hard but trying to have faith in Gods timing. All the best

Hi everyone, this is our second cycle after giving birth to our angel daughter at 25 weeks. The grief and anxiety I feel for my daughter is so intense and TTC has just been so overwhelming. My husband and I are ready to have another baby I'm just not mentally to deal with all of this anxiety of tcc again.

This month I bought the advanced clearblue opk and also started to track my bbt once my thermometer came in. I did post this the other day and did get one response, but my chart still doesn't detect an ovulation and I'm just so heartbroken today and I am praying that someone with experience is able to guide me through this.

I appreciate all your input.

 

[LovingAngel]

Whoa! Huuuge spike!

How are you doing Dill? What does you chart look like? Any symptoms? I attached mine again for input! 😉

 

[LovingAngel]

Thank you so much for your kind words. I'm sorry to hear about your daughter as well. How long ago was your daughter born and how many cycles have you been TTC again?

Hello. I'm sorry for your loss. I recently lost my daughter at 18 weeks and DH and i are TTC our rainbow too. Patience is hard but trying to have faith in Gods timing. All the best

Hi everyone, this is our second cycle after giving birth to our angel daughter at 25 weeks. The grief and anxiety I feel for my daughter is so intense and TTC has just been so overwhelming. My husband and I are ready to have another baby I'm just not mentally to deal with all of this anxiety of tcc again.

This month I bought the advanced clearblue opk and also started to track my bbt once my thermometer came in. I did post this the other day and did get one response, but my chart still doesn't detect an ovulation and I'm just so heartbroken today and I am praying that someone with experience is able to guide me through this.

I appreciate all your input.

 

[Dill]

Angel, here's my chart, currently up to date. Yours looks like it's going steady, so hang in there!

I woke up this morning STILL with the darn headache, and with a boatload of nausea. so I snuck in a couple of tests with FMU. And ... they came up positive.

 

[LovingAngel]

Angel, here's my chart, currently up to date. Yours looks like it's going steady, so hang in there!

I woke up this morning STILL with the darn headache, and with a boatload of nausea. so I snuck in a couple of tests with FMU. And ... they came up positive.

Oh my goodness!!!! Congratulations, I am soooo happy for you!!! Oh you must be over the moon!

Do you think mine is to erratic to land in a BFP?

 

[Dill]

I'm ecstatic and terrified, haha.

It's still early yet -- I don't see any signs that your chart is going triphasic, but you still have 5 more possible implantation days, and plenty of women end up pregnant without any signs of a triphasic chart (my sister's 3 successful pregnancies were all biphasic only, while she had a few triphasic charts that were false alarms).

 

[LovingAngel]

I'm ecstatic and terrified, haha.

It's still early yet -- I don't see any signs that your chart is going triphasic, but you still have 5 more possible implantation days, and plenty of women end up pregnant without any signs of a triphasic chart (my sister's 3 successful pregnancies were all biphasic only, while she had a few triphasic charts that were false alarms).

How are you feeling Dill? When is your doctors appointment? You must be so excited!!!

My chart looks like it's starting to go up on average. What do you think?

 

[Dill]

How are you feeling Dill? When is your doctors appointment? You must be so excited!!!

My chart looks like it's starting to go up on average. What do you think?

Feeling a little nauseous (these prenatal vitamins are tough), but otherwise super excited! I haven't set a doctor's appointment yet -- I'm not sure when I should tell them. I'm so barely pregnant (3 weeks and 4 days), and last time I called them with a BFP, they scolded me and told me they don't get involved until 8 weeks. The best I could argue them into was a 7 week appointment since I have a history of loss and was spotting at the time, and I lost the pregnancy before then.

ANYWAY, your chart is still looking good. It's not looking triphasic yet, but it doesn't look like it's gearing up for AF yet, either.

 

[LovingAngel]

I hate how they make you wait until you're 7 weeks! I remember so my daughter I was shocked that hey wouldn't see until 8 weeks. I remember thinking that's probably another reason why miscarriage is so common as people aren't getting the support and advice they need for their tiny little babies.

It would mean the world for me to conceive this month. It was my due date month and also if I do get pregnant my new due date would be when my angel was actually born. I would just love for them to share he connection. I am just wishing my chart was a better indication.

I'm starting back at work part time tomorrow. I want to hold off to test until Saturday as I don't want any added anxiety. Please keep me in your prayers.

 

[Dill]

Will do! Best of luck!

 

[thumpette]

Congratulations Dill! Fingers crossed for a nice sticky bean and a happy and healthy pregnancy. LovingAngel, so sorry for your loss, I read through the whole thread all excited for you, can't wait to see what tomorrow's temp brings. I lost my little boy just over 6 weeks ago at 41+4. I'm completely heartbroken and desperate to try again as soon as possible.

I stopped bleeding after 2.5 weeks but started again 2 weeks later. I was worried (I worry about everything now) so I went to the docs and he thought it might be my period back. If lasted 7 days and had some period type cramping, different to my old pattern but I guess that happens. I've been trying to temp but I've been sleeping really badly so I think the temps are all over the place. If the bleed was my period I'm 14 dpo and saw a big drop this morning, I guess I'm hoping for a high spike tomorrow? I kinda forget how to temp!

 

[Dill]

That sounds about right, thumpette! Even if you're sleeping poorly and waking often, you should still be able to get a good idea of your pattern. Just be sure you're taking it at the same time every morning, before you've spoken or really moved around much (still in bed, while half-asleep, is really ideal).

You should see your temps rise up above coverline after ovulation. It generally happens the next day, but some women rise a little slower than others.

 

[LovingAngel]

Oh thumpette, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It's such a devastating and earth shattering experience to lose our babies and I truly wish this pain on no one. I am definitely overwhelmed with TTC and it just seems so unfair to have to start all over when we were so far into it.

I am currently 11DPO and I got a big drop today, it's above my cover line still, but I am definitely less optimistic about it all. I just wish this was all easier somehow and someway. I also worry and have anxiety about everything but when you lose your baby it's hard not too…

Dill, how are you feeling? You've been a great support to me this cycle and was hoping for your continued input… do you think the witch is arriving tomorrow or is there still a chance?

 

[Dill]

I don't think you're out yet, Angel! You have a lot of ups and downs in your post-o chart, so today's drop doesn't necessarily mean you're gearing up for AF.