HELP me please!! TTC second cycle after my angel daughter

[Dill]

Oh, awesome, in the TWW, then!!! Fingers crossed for you!

Hadn't realized this was your first AF after a loss, thump -- also a good thing.

Win all around!

 

[LovingAngel]

Thanks Ladies, temps aren't looking that promising so I appreciate your wishes of luck!

 

[LovingAngel]

I'm starting to feel hopeful ladies! Dill, what do you think? Does my chart look like its going triphasic?? Fertility friend doesn't recognize it yet so I'm confused. To me it also looks like I couldve o'd two days before ff said I did. What do you ladies think???

Ps. How are you ladies doing??

 

[Dill]

I'd say that's a possibility -- keep an eye on your temps over the next few days!

As for me, sicker than a DOG. Don't want to eat anything, throwing up, exhausted, nauseous, bloated. Blehhhh.

 

[LovingAngel]

I'm sorry to hear you're not well, but I'd take those symptoms anyway! Hopefully that means your bean is growing into a healthy little baby!

Thank you for your insight. I feel strangely optimistic but am worried to feel this way!

 

[thumpette]

I'm deffo not as skilled in the chart reading as you two but that looks good so far to me! I'd agree on the ov looking 2 days earlier too. Hope the sickness is a good sign Dill! I'm day 13 now- no sign of ov yet though I did have ewcm today. Taking opks and all neg so far. I'm quite crampy today- like mild pre period cramps. Also starting accupuncture on Thursday. Hopefully if I don't ov it will help the anxiety and get things back on track. Onto week 7 of couch to 5k too- running 25 mins now and feeling really fit- also lightest weight I've been since after my wedding so really hope it all helps xx

 

[LovingAngel]

Good for you thumpette! I still need to lose 18lbs!!

I also started acupuncture this month. My chart was so wonky last month and I am just so desperate to have my rainbow by next Christmas, so I was willing to go to any length this cycle!

 

[thumpette]

Oh I still have about 18 pound to lose to get to ideal weight but I'm 8 pound lighter than I was when I conceived Max so I hope it helps. I so know what you mean about Christmas. I can't bear the thought of not having a baby for Christmas after being so sure we'd have an almost 1 year old

 

[LovingAngel]

That's exactly it. It's completely unbearable to have another Christmas without our rainbows! My temp went up a smidgen today, but I slept horribly last night so I don't know how accurate the reading was. I'm feeling PMS'y though so I feel less optimistic today…

 

[Dill]

I'm feel optimistic for you, Loving.

As for myself, just trying to stay calm after a little cramping and spotting this morning.

 

[LovingAngel]

Oh Dill, that would be a scare for sure! Very hard to relax, but if it's gone from this morning it sounds to me like you're okay and that got a little fighter bean in ya!

 

[thumpette]

Loads of optimism and best wishes for you both girls! I hope tomorrow brings temperature rises and sticky beans. Hoping I'll start seeing a temp rise tomorrow!

 

[LovingAngel]

How are you doing today Dill?? Ive been thinking of you and your bean and sending positive vibes your way.

As for me my temp dropped a lot this morning and I caved and tested and for bfn. Looks like the witch is on her way. ��

I hope your rise came thumpettte!'

 

[thumpette]

Oh no- sorry to hear that lovingangel.

No sign of OV for me yet. Negative opks and no temp increase. Bah

Hope everything is good Dill x

 

[thumpette]

Got crosshairs today which show that I oved on Thursday. Doesn't look right to me with so many early temps being above the cover line. The only 2 things that make me think it might be genuine OV are:

I got the feeling myself something might be happening on Thurs. I was feeling very tired and had mild cramps all day.
I'm sleeping so badly that my temps are a bit all over the place in terms of the times they are taken and how much uninterrupted sleep I've had
I've had only negative opks too but I've deffo not been doing them perfectly according to instructions

The luteal phase temps do look too low though don't they?

Did your af arrive lovingangel? How's everything going Dill? 😘

 

[thumpette]

Also I was in Spain at the start of the cycle and back in Ireland now so maybe that accounts for high early temps?

 

[LovingAngel]

Hi Thumpette, it's really hard to tell because the time difference can make all the difference in the world. How close are you taking them together? It does look a lot less erratic after 10dpo though so that could be a good thing.

AF is due for me tomorrow. My temp has rose slightly both 11dpo and 12dpo (today) after my crash at 10dpo. Temps are nowhere near where they were before 10dpo but last month after they crashed they just got lower and lower till the witch showed. I still feel out but the small rise does leave me a little optimistic I guess.

Dill, where are you??? We're both so worried and are hoping and praying all is okay with you and your lil' bean… please let us know! XO

 

[thumpette]

Hopefully the increases are a good sign- are you going to test?

I got a high on the opk yesterday- line wasn't as dark as the control so still neg but it's the darkest it's been. Temp nose dived today so ff has removed the crosshairs now and reckons I haven't oved. I had a pain in my left hand side most of yesterday and combined with the more positive reading on the opk I'm hoping that this morning was a pre ovulation dip and I might ov today and get my temps up tomorrow. It would all make much more sense then and still only day 17. Fingers crossed!

Really hope there's no AF visit for you!

Dill, really hoping you're busy off being pregnancy sick and that bean is holding tight- think of you both often xxx

 

[LovingAngel]

It sounds like your right on track to release the eggie! Make sure to jump hubby today!! Also, take another opk today and compare if it's lighter or darker from yesterdays. That will help decipher.

Yes, my fingers are crossed for sure! I will test on wednesday if AF doesn't show tomorrow unless there's a big rise tomorrow than curiosity might get the best of me!

 

[thumpette]

Today's opk was feinter! So confused! Will get himself on the case anyway! It's all stamina training even if there's no egg this month! Really hope temp is up again for you tomorrow. Let me know- I'll be dying to hear!