HELP me please!! TTC second cycle after my angel daughter

[LovingAngel]

I don't think you're out yet, Angel! You have a lot of ups and downs in your post-o chart, so today's drop doesn't necessarily mean you're gearing up for AF.

Thanks Dill! It's funny how hearing it from others provides relief! How are you feeling today?

 

[Dill]

I know, something about hearing it from someone else always helps settle a person down. I know I always need to hear it from another person when I'm freaking out!

Feeling great! Starving and dying of thirst, but great.

 

[LovingAngel]

Funny how the what others call the "joys or pregnancy" are actually true joys of pregnancy after a loss. I'd kill for all those feelings again! I never got sick with my daughter at all but I would embrace morning sickness now openly and happily if I knew my baby is healthy and growing!

 

[Dill]

Exactly. I have friends who complained and moaned all through their pregnancies... and I couldn't wait to suffer!

 

[LovingAngel]

Temp dropped a tad again today but I realized when I woke up my mouth was open. I thought it was yesterday too so I made a point to remember to see when I got up this morning. I am hoping that explains why my temps are so up and down.

 

[thumpette]

I hope that explains it lovingangel. My temp just keeps plummeting, definitely think I was being premature in thinking that was a period, I reckon my body is still all over the place cycle wise. It's only 6.5 weeks so I guess not surprising. I'm just so impatient with my body. Going for Max's post mortem results too on Monday so I'm so worried about that- about just how upsetting it'll be even being back in the hospital and then the fear that it's something likely to happen again. I was going to post a pic of my chart here to show how fecked it is but I can't see how to do that on mobile- is that possible?

Dill, glad you're feeling well xxx

 

[Dill]

I'm miserable, but happy about it, if that makes sense. Feeling a lot better now that I've hit both possible AF dates and still seem to be doing okay (knock on wood).

I don't think there is a way to share via the mobile app. I had to hop on my laptop to get the link each time!

 

[LovingAngel]

Oh thumpette I know those feelings oh to well! My AF came around the 7 week mark after my angel. The autopsy results meeting is tough. We never got the cause of death which which has been difficult to accept. �� I'm now 12 dpo and am planning to test tomorrow if my stupid temp doesn't plumet any further! I just take a screen capture of my chart on my phone and attached it as a picture.

 

[thumpette]

Oh thumpette I know those feelings oh to well! My AF came around the 7 week mark after my angel. The autopsy results meeting is tough. We never got the cause of death which which has been difficult to accept. �� I'm now 12 dpo and am planning to test tomorrow if my stupid temp doesn't plumet any further! I just take a screen capture of my chart on my phone and attached it as a picture.

I don't see an attach button at all. Will be thinking of you testing tomorrow- fingers crossed! Xx

 

[Dill]

thumpette, you can attach images to your posts here by clicking "go advanced" (you may need to use the desktop version of the site and not the mobile version, but there's a link you can use to switch) and then clicking the paper clip icon.

 

[thumpette]

Thanks Dill,

Don't think there's much to look at on my chart- just a mess of temperatures!

How are you getting on? Everything still looking good?

How's things lovingangel?

 

[Dill]

Hard to tell what's going on there. No OPKs, cervix stats, anything like that to help pinpoint important dates?

As for me, doing okay. Did another CB digi and it estimates me at 2-3 weeks post-o now. I'm 16dpo, so things are coming along nicely. Morning sickness and sensitive tummy are getting worse.

 

[thumpette]

Hi girls,

How are you both doing?

Bean holding tight Dill?

Looks like I've finally oved according to my temps- had kinda given up though so hadn't bd in a couple of days before so unlikely for this month. Just happy to be getting my cycle back at this stage!

 

[Dill]

Still doing well, thank you for asking! Got my 3+ weeks on a digi yesterday. It was reassuring to see!

Your chart is looking good! Glad you O'd and things are getting back on track.

 

[thumpette]

Ah that's brilliant news, everything crossed for holding tight x

 

[LovingAngel]

Sorry for being mia ladies! AF showed her ugly face for me last night and it made me spiral into a sea of emotions again.

Update me again Ladies… Where are you in your cycle now Thumpette? Dill, I hope that bean is getting bigger and stronger everyday!

 

[thumpette]

Sorry to hear that

I got (I think) my period- cycle day 7 now. It was very very light so I'm not even sure it was- will see how temping goes.

Hope all is going good dill xxx

 

[Dill]

So sorry AF got you both!!!

Pregnancy symptoms are kicking my butt, especially nausea and food aversion, but all otherwise seems well. I've got my first appointment with the midwife in less than a week and a half, so I'm starting to get nervous/excited!

 

[LovingAngel]

Oh Dill I'm so happy to hear you're doing well!! I'm glad to hear your jest appointment is coming up!

thumpette, I'm glad you had your fist period. Mine was so heavy the first time I got mine again!

I Re read my post and I didn't get Af last night I meant to say last time. I'm currently 5 dpo and praying this will be our cycle!

 

[thumpette]

Hope the symptoms are a good sign of everything going to plan Dill!

Lovingangel, good luck with the 2ww, hope it's a very happy ending! Xx