Odd Socks
Mummy to 2 girls.
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Hi,
I was determined to breastfeed Bella throughout my last pregnancy, it was something I really wanted to do, but unfortunately she struggled to latch on (she would be crying / screaming for 5 hours at a time before eventually latching on, feeding for a few seconds & then falling asleep, only to repeat the same process 20 minutes later). She'd also only latch on my right side, even with nipple shields, she failed to latch onto my left side. I tried different positions & the only one that worked at all (on the right side) was the rugby ball hold. In the end, we were readmitted to hospital when she was a couple of weeks old & I reluctantly started to bottle feed (expressed & formula), but when she was a month old, I stopped expressing as I was physically exhausted & couldn't manage.
It took me a long time to get over it, & I think I eventually did only because I've told myself that when I have another, I'll have another chance.
So, another is on its way, & I'm putting myself under, if possible, more pressure than last time. I know it's silly, but I would love to breastfeed, successfully, one of my children. I know some people here have done the same thing, not managed with their first, but have with their second (or third / fourth), & I was wondering what advice I could take. What information out there is available for someone like me? What's the likelihood I will manage? How will I manage with a 17 month old toddler to look after as well? What can I do to improve my chances? Is there anything I can do beforehand to help? I have flat nipples so I believe that contributed to the latching issues. I want to put in my birthing plan that I'd like to see a lactaction consultant (there's one at my local hospital) before I leave the hospital.
xx
I was determined to breastfeed Bella throughout my last pregnancy, it was something I really wanted to do, but unfortunately she struggled to latch on (she would be crying / screaming for 5 hours at a time before eventually latching on, feeding for a few seconds & then falling asleep, only to repeat the same process 20 minutes later). She'd also only latch on my right side, even with nipple shields, she failed to latch onto my left side. I tried different positions & the only one that worked at all (on the right side) was the rugby ball hold. In the end, we were readmitted to hospital when she was a couple of weeks old & I reluctantly started to bottle feed (expressed & formula), but when she was a month old, I stopped expressing as I was physically exhausted & couldn't manage.
It took me a long time to get over it, & I think I eventually did only because I've told myself that when I have another, I'll have another chance.
So, another is on its way, & I'm putting myself under, if possible, more pressure than last time. I know it's silly, but I would love to breastfeed, successfully, one of my children. I know some people here have done the same thing, not managed with their first, but have with their second (or third / fourth), & I was wondering what advice I could take. What information out there is available for someone like me? What's the likelihood I will manage? How will I manage with a 17 month old toddler to look after as well? What can I do to improve my chances? Is there anything I can do beforehand to help? I have flat nipples so I believe that contributed to the latching issues. I want to put in my birthing plan that I'd like to see a lactaction consultant (there's one at my local hospital) before I leave the hospital.
xx