I'm sorry but I completely disagree with letting a baby "cry it out". All that teaches them is that they can't rely on you meeting their needs. If you want a securely attached child that will grow into a balanced, happy adult, then the best thing you can do is be consistently responsive to your baby's needs. And that includes the need for comfort. I'm not sayin there shouldn't be any routine. You can have bedtimes and even feeding times (although I don't believe in those either) and still be there for your child. There is so much research that shows how important it is to be consistantly there for young infants and how damaging it can be if they learn that you aren't.
I very much agree with this. I could never in my heart allow my daughter to cry knowing that I can easily comfort her myself. I don't even understand where people think that is okay. They do it so they can get their baby to sleep on their own. So much pressure is put on these little babies to sleep a full night. When in all actuality, babies wake up at night. It's just what they do. Babies crying it out is just a parent letting their baby cry and cry until they realize mummy isn't going to meet their needs, and they give up and go to sleep. And slowly they won't even try crying anymore because they know their needs won't be met. It's horrible.
I dont think thats very fair at all, children who cry it out have their needs met just as much as children who dont.My sister only turned to letting them cry it out aftr 10 months, before that she was walking the floor rocking her every single night for about 2 hours.When she tried to stop this and get her to fall asleep on her own obviously she didnt take to kindly to it.Its unrealistic to think you can keep it up for a long space of time, if you pick up a child every time they cry they learn that crying=attention and at what point do you draw the line? when their 2? 5? 8? It just doesnt work