isabelsmummy
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i definatly agree with the idea that the focus should be creating ways for people to earn their benefits or creating jobs more than taking money away from people xx
I haven't read all the replies but i just wanted to say that i can't actually understand why parents would throw their children out of the house just because they are 18. My parents were quite happy for us to be at home prior to getting married. My sister left at 21, my youngest brother went to uni and didn't really return so he was 18, my other brother was 27 and i was 26. We all payed rent to our parents but staying at home allowed us to save up money in order to leave home. I think the majority of people i know stayed at home with their parents until they were in a financial position to leave. - and most of those were well into their 20's and their parents didn't mind.
While things like car insurance and petrol is expensive, if you are in a position where money is tight then you really have to look at priorities. I didn't have a car for a long while after i passed my test because i couldn't afford one. I either used public transport or cycled. To me, unless you actually have to have a car in order to be able to do your job, a car isn't actually a necessity, it's something you buy when you can actually afford it.
I think there definitely needs to be reforms to the benefit system however there is no way that'd it'd be able to be done in a way that would be seen as fair by everyone. Whilst i don't agree with the while child benefit changes i feel that my loosing the CHB is my way of helping reduce the deficit.
I also agree with the cookielucylou - i have chosen to stay at home and look after my children and because i do that we loose out on loads of extra help that other people get. But in order for us to get that help i'd have to work pretty much full time which we mean i'd hardly see my children.
I still think that the current system encourages a sense of entitlement. I don think its healthy for a young person to think that they can basically do what they like and the government will provide for them.
Been a parent doesn't end when a child turns 18. Personally I would much rather my child was living at home aged 24, earning a living, saving, and planning a future of their own making rather than moving out and depending on the state.
IMO the system needs huge changes to hopefully encourage a healthier attitude in future generations.
This is the thing though hun..by getting people who Don't need council houses etc to move back with their parents,it opens up the chance for people who do need them,like yourselves.xx
Yep cookie, they cant make you move if you have too many bedrooms. I know someone in a three bed flat, there are just her and her husband so they have a bedroom each and the third bedroom she uses as a dressing room