I was planning on breastfeeding for a few weeks, no longer. So i brought some formula with a cell by date of Nov.2009, My ex's mum was over in our place at the weekend and saw the milk and the date and said 'Why did you buy this if your breastfeeding it goes out of date in 2009' I just said 'Oh just incase you know' because i didnt know what else to say to her! Nov.09.. A whole year away.. she better not be expecting me to breastfeed for that long!!!!! Shes so strict on stuff like this and i cant deal with the stress of her going on and on lecturing me about it.. How do i tell her that there is no way i am doing it for that long!!! Do you think its bad if i just make an excuse after hes here why i cant breastfeed anylonger but i wanted too.. ?!!!! Arghh its my baby!