I don't care what it says on the envelope, I'm like yay we got a card!!!
Whether it contains his or my first name or initial really isn't relevant, I couldn't be offended by someone who had taken time out of their day to send me a card.
Thinking on it we have had every variation of the names over the years, but it's not something that has ever made me feel like a 1950's housewife? I guess it's not that important to me
But to answer your question, personally if you are going to constantly be offended by mail arriving I would just tell them thanks but no thanks. I think it's actually a little bit off to demand how someone writes on an envelope tbh, I mean most people don't give it that much thought, I know when I have sent cards to couples I have never thought it through I just scribble down whatever, so according to when I do it it could vary each time
Whether it contains his or my first name or initial really isn't relevant, I couldn't be offended by someone who had taken time out of their day to send me a card.
Thinking on it we have had every variation of the names over the years, but it's not something that has ever made me feel like a 1950's housewife? I guess it's not that important to me
But to answer your question, personally if you are going to constantly be offended by mail arriving I would just tell them thanks but no thanks. I think it's actually a little bit off to demand how someone writes on an envelope tbh, I mean most people don't give it that much thought, I know when I have sent cards to couples I have never thought it through I just scribble down whatever, so according to when I do it it could vary each time