seoj
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I heard once not to decide something based on short term issues- but to look at the overall long term path... for you and your family. No one else can make that decision for you.
No matter when you are "done" though, I can imagine there will always be (to some extent) that sadness that comes with knowing this is your last time through the baby stage. My LO is my first and last baby- maybe if I was younger or didn't have fertility issues I'd feel differently... as I LOVED being pregnant and have loved every stage. But since she's my first experience with it all- there is a bit of sadness as she grows knowing this is IT. But, not enough to feel the pull to have another. I'd for SURE go back an experience moments over again... if only there was a time machine haha. But to start from scratch... not so much.
No matter when you are "done" though, I can imagine there will always be (to some extent) that sadness that comes with knowing this is your last time through the baby stage. My LO is my first and last baby- maybe if I was younger or didn't have fertility issues I'd feel differently... as I LOVED being pregnant and have loved every stage. But since she's my first experience with it all- there is a bit of sadness as she grows knowing this is IT. But, not enough to feel the pull to have another. I'd for SURE go back an experience moments over again... if only there was a time machine haha. But to start from scratch... not so much.
