Alyssa Drough
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I'm 30 years old, had my first baby in January.
I always wanted 2 children.
How do people cope with more than one?! I think my DD is a fairly easy baby but it's still stressful and I couldn't imagine doing all this again AND having a toddler or young child to deal with as well!
My main question is - what is a good age gap?
A lot of people say knock em out quick, but my logic would be wait until the first child is a bit older so they can look after themselves a bit more. Like 4 or 5 years old. Surely it would be easier to look after a newborn while the older child is in school for the day?
I also need to convince my OH!
Help!
I always wanted 2 children.
How do people cope with more than one?! I think my DD is a fairly easy baby but it's still stressful and I couldn't imagine doing all this again AND having a toddler or young child to deal with as well!
My main question is - what is a good age gap?
A lot of people say knock em out quick, but my logic would be wait until the first child is a bit older so they can look after themselves a bit more. Like 4 or 5 years old. Surely it would be easier to look after a newborn while the older child is in school for the day?
I also need to convince my OH!
Help!