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Update... I know it has been a while but I wanted to do an update on this thead because the information is helpful for other ladies that are going to do the same thing.Plus I wanted to discuss the rest of my experience when I end up actually having the surgery as well.
I ended up postpoing my original surgery from back in 03/2012. I ended up getting a new job and wanted to save up some more $$ first to cover the out of pocket costs before going through with the surgery.The good news is that after almost 6 months at my new job I got hired on as a permanenet employee and also got a 2 dollar an hour pay raise from what I was being paid as a temp eployee!!!
I tried to contact my infertility DR to reschedule the surgery but I found out that she had left the practice. All of the other DR's there are males so at first I was scared to go see a male DR, I am just not comfortable with a male DR being down there for all of that time poking around, at firs I searched around for another female infertlity DR but I couldnt find anyone that offered IUI at a reasonable price and that was conveinient to my home. So long story short I sucked it up and scheduled a surgical consult with a male DR at my original infertility DR's office. I must admit that I am still nervous about seeing a male DR, but his background is very impressive and he has done many surgeries in the past like mine so I will be in good and experienced care.
My consult is scheduled for 07/31/12 at 4pm. By sticking with my original infertility DR office I saved myself the trouble of getting my records transfered to another DR office and possibly having to do additional testing again. I have already went through the gazillion infertility tests and didnt want to have to repeat them. I am hoping that the surgical consult will just be an oppurtunity to meet the new male DR and make sure I am comfortable with him, to discuss the surgery and for him to answer any questions that I might have. I am really hoping he doesnt need to do any additional testing on me, since I have ben there and done all of that already!! Plus before he is staring at my lady bits I was hoping I could at last meet the new DR first to make sure I am comfortable with him and like him. One good thing is that all of the nurses at my infertility DR's office are very nice, and sweet!! It is a nice place to go to for the most part. I am just hung up on the whole male DR thing. Sigh.. Hopefully I am just making it out to be much worse than it really is in my mind since I have a tendency to over think everything!!!
My goal is to schedule the surgery at the end of August or early September at the latest!!! The best part is that I have a permanent job now and I have paid vacation time that I can use to take off time to do the surgery. I dont have to worry about being able to afford to pay my surgery bills since I am working now!!
I was still debating about whether or not I should do both surgeries but I know both procedures will ensure my maximum fertility!! After the surgeries are done than I want to see if the DR would pescribe me clomid an let me and DH try a few rounds with just the help of that, and than if tat doesnt work than IUI is going to be next.
The lap is more invasive because they cut through your belly and it takes longer to heal.I t isnt' required that I do it though. I am only required to do the hysteroscopy to remove the polyp from my uterus before being allowed to do IUI. I can do both surgeries together though to make sure my second fallopian tube isnt blocked at the same time as hysteroscopy. I would only need to be under anethesia once and I could knock out both procedures all at once!! I was worried that I wuld regret not doing both surgeries though, because if I didnt do all that I could do now than I would sit and wonder what could of been if I did both surrgeries, plus 2 for sure open fallopian tubes means higher fertility and better chance of getting pregnant!! I know I cant pass up on this chance!!! After almost 3 years LTTC I am pretty depserate and ready to do whatever it takes to get my BFP finally!!
I ended up postpoing my original surgery from back in 03/2012. I ended up getting a new job and wanted to save up some more $$ first to cover the out of pocket costs before going through with the surgery.The good news is that after almost 6 months at my new job I got hired on as a permanenet employee and also got a 2 dollar an hour pay raise from what I was being paid as a temp eployee!!!
I tried to contact my infertility DR to reschedule the surgery but I found out that she had left the practice. All of the other DR's there are males so at first I was scared to go see a male DR, I am just not comfortable with a male DR being down there for all of that time poking around, at firs I searched around for another female infertlity DR but I couldnt find anyone that offered IUI at a reasonable price and that was conveinient to my home. So long story short I sucked it up and scheduled a surgical consult with a male DR at my original infertility DR's office. I must admit that I am still nervous about seeing a male DR, but his background is very impressive and he has done many surgeries in the past like mine so I will be in good and experienced care.
My consult is scheduled for 07/31/12 at 4pm. By sticking with my original infertility DR office I saved myself the trouble of getting my records transfered to another DR office and possibly having to do additional testing again. I have already went through the gazillion infertility tests and didnt want to have to repeat them. I am hoping that the surgical consult will just be an oppurtunity to meet the new male DR and make sure I am comfortable with him, to discuss the surgery and for him to answer any questions that I might have. I am really hoping he doesnt need to do any additional testing on me, since I have ben there and done all of that already!! Plus before he is staring at my lady bits I was hoping I could at last meet the new DR first to make sure I am comfortable with him and like him. One good thing is that all of the nurses at my infertility DR's office are very nice, and sweet!! It is a nice place to go to for the most part. I am just hung up on the whole male DR thing. Sigh.. Hopefully I am just making it out to be much worse than it really is in my mind since I have a tendency to over think everything!!!
My goal is to schedule the surgery at the end of August or early September at the latest!!! The best part is that I have a permanent job now and I have paid vacation time that I can use to take off time to do the surgery. I dont have to worry about being able to afford to pay my surgery bills since I am working now!!
I was still debating about whether or not I should do both surgeries but I know both procedures will ensure my maximum fertility!! After the surgeries are done than I want to see if the DR would pescribe me clomid an let me and DH try a few rounds with just the help of that, and than if tat doesnt work than IUI is going to be next.
The lap is more invasive because they cut through your belly and it takes longer to heal.I t isnt' required that I do it though. I am only required to do the hysteroscopy to remove the polyp from my uterus before being allowed to do IUI. I can do both surgeries together though to make sure my second fallopian tube isnt blocked at the same time as hysteroscopy. I would only need to be under anethesia once and I could knock out both procedures all at once!! I was worried that I wuld regret not doing both surgeries though, because if I didnt do all that I could do now than I would sit and wonder what could of been if I did both surrgeries, plus 2 for sure open fallopian tubes means higher fertility and better chance of getting pregnant!! I know I cant pass up on this chance!!! After almost 3 years LTTC I am pretty depserate and ready to do whatever it takes to get my BFP finally!!