i officially hate af :)

[ttcn15]

Me too!
How have you been?
I'm on cd 3 but I have an appointment Monday with the doc to see what I haven't been ovulating.

mrs.green2015 - how do you know if you did not ovulate? If the period comes on time everytime I presume that one is ovulating right?

We have been trying from August 2015 but if you remove 2 months, in those 2 months we skipped ttc and only had sex 3 times a week during ovulation since we were sick so overall around 4 months approx i think..maybe i am being too positive and the reality is 6 months?!! I am finding excuses or what?

i hope your appointment goes well

 

[ttcn15]

OMG I hate her too! And she is so mean, every month she gives me horrible but really horrible cramps and a heavy flow for the first 2 days.

And the last month I did not want her to visit anymore! I want a baby!!!

Me too!!!!
Lots of dust hon xxx

- lilesMom thank you, are you ttc too?

 

[ttcn15]

I don't even know where I am in my cycle so that really sucks. And I know how you feel Ttcn15... I just finally want to be pregnant.

- Velathria it's great to meet people going through the same situation. Hope 2016 gets us pregnant

 

[lilesMom]

Yeah you usually go make friends but the women there aren't really interested I think. Ah ok.. referrals take forever here lol

I'm originally from Germany and I only miss my family but ireland is our home now. My DH is from here so we moved. My son took it really well. He is such a champ.

Did you have problems with getting pregnant with your first? I didnt. I got pregnant with him so quick and now this is taking forever.. it's so weird. Hope your referral comes through soon.

I would like to try the preseed but can't find it anywhere. Neither in the chemist or other stores.

Well done for making the move
It isn't easy but worth it for love
Hee hee.

I had a mc before ds too
But then got preg first try and had him no prob.
Thought first mc was a yucky fluke
But hve had two after ds so I'm not sure now
No cause found yet.
Drs do far reckon its bad luck.
If so, I'm hoping I get better luck soon

We go to a playgroup once a week
I thought I might make mom friends
But no joy either.
There were only 4 kids in the group
Us moms had nothing in common
Other than having kids with special needs
And lived nowhere near each other

I so still hve a couple of good friends left from my old work
And one from school
But apart from my sisters
That's about it.
So I can imagine how hard it is starting from start.
Irish people hve a friendly reputation
But we aren't very open anymore really I think.
I'm on here everyday anytime u want a chat xx

Id say u could prob order peeseed from amazon or ebay hon.
Something in my head says maybe Sam mc cauley chemists do it too
I'm sure I thought about ordering it ages ago but didn't

 

[lilesMom]

Oh my grandad on my dads side is German too
But we never knew him
Just a slightly related fact
I've never been to Germany
But OH best friend and bro live there
So we really should go soon

 

[lilesMom]

OMG I hate her too! And she is so mean, every month she gives me horrible but really horrible cramps and a heavy flow for the first 2 days.

And the last month I did not want her to visit anymore! I want a baby!!!

Me too!!!!
Lots of dust hon xxx

- lilesMom thank you, are you ttc too?

Yeah hon.
I am
I hve a nearly 3 year old
Been trying for a sibling for nearly a year and a half now.
Boo
Hopefully soon
How long are u ttc xxx

 

[lilesMom]

I just saw ur previous post that says ur ttc since August on and off xxx
Silly me

 

[lilesMom]

Mrs green
U still here.
How did ur appointment go?
Did u get clomid? Xxx
Hope it went well x

 

[mrs.green2015]

Hey ladies! sorry super busy weekend and ya only 9am here! My appointment is in a couple hours so I'll update after.

For the question about how I know. I temp and use opks and nothing since my mc. My temps say I might have last month but my doc said if I don't get a positive opk (I test 2-3 times a day) I'm not ovulating.

I hope you're all doing well!

 

[NicciNFamily]

She just arrived.
CD1 for me ... the worst. hate her, especially the first 5 days of the bleeding.

i do like the fertile window tho, im being so positive in this time

 

[lilesMom]

Hey ladies! sorry super busy weekend and ya only 9am here! My appointment is in a couple hours so I'll update after.

For the question about how I know. I temp and use opks and nothing since my mc. My temps say I might have last month but my doc said if I don't get a positive opk (I test 2-3 times a day) I'm not ovulating.

I hope you're all doing well!

Whoops sorry forgot the time difference xx
Look forward to ur update hon xxx

 

[lilesMom]

She just arrived.
CD1 for me ... the worst. hate her, especially the first 5 days of the bleeding.

i do like the fertile window tho, im being so positive in this time

Positive is always good.
Yup fertile window I fun too.
I feel like I'm being proactive,
Feel more hopefull and of course the bd
Hee hee

 

[lilesMom]

So....
This morning was weird
Should be day 3 if af
But its gone to brown.
I got my pain I usually only get at ov
So I took opk ,it was dark like it was after ov last month
Not pos but dark.
Like on the way down
This eve opk is light again.
I can't hve ov cd 3 can I????
Gonna bd tonight just in case.
OH still at work.
I'm feeling horny like I do for ov, sorry tmi.
Um.....
Nothing I can do about except precautionary bd

 

[NicciNFamily]

So....
This morning was weird
Should be day 3 if af
But its gone to brown.
I got my pain I usually only get at ov
So I took opk ,it was dark like it was after ov last month
Not pos but dark.
Like on the way down
This eve opk is light again.
I can't hve ov cd 3 can I????
Gonna bd tonight just in case.
OH still at work.
I'm feeling horny like I do for ov, sorry tmi.
Um.....
Nothing I can do about except precautionary bd

Our bodies are unique and weird lol
anythign can happen i guess , dont ignore that just BBD !
p/s my advice is to raise ur legs up like maybe put them on the wall and kinda wiggle your hips hahaha and lay like this for like 5-10 mins or so until no sperm goes out when u stand (or at least not all of it) , i read it helps the sperm reaching the egg
It worked for me anyways back then in June (tho i had a MC )

Hope it works for you as well

 

[lilesMom]

I actually did this fir my son too
Thanks.
Now usually we bd before sleep
So I stay in bed with a towel to let the swimmers do their job.
Thanks hon.
Loads of dust to u too xxx

 

[NicciNFamily]

I actually did this fir my son too
Thanks.
Now usually we bd before sleep
So I stay in bed with a towel to let the swimmers do their job.
Thanks hon.
Loads of dust to u too xxx

Ohh thats great !
thats a good idea as well , wrapping the towel
I hope this is our month , ill need a buddy to share my experience with it will be my first one so yah

 

[mrs.green2015]

I have no idea if you can ov on cd 3 but go get some just in case! Lol

 

[lilesMom]

I actually did this fir my son too
Thanks.
Now usually we bd before sleep
So I stay in bed with a towel to let the swimmers do their job.
Thanks hon.
Loads of dust to u too xxx

Ohh thats great !
thats a good idea as well , wrapping the towel
I hope this is our month , ill need a buddy to share my experience with it will be my first one so yah

I'm here
Loads of dust to u xxx

 

[lilesMom]

I have no idea if you can ov on cd 3 but go get some just in case! Lol

I know it sounds ridiculous.
Way too early
But just in case I'm bd ing tonight
I want to get preg
Not taking chances on missing this month
I'm sick of not being pregnant
Gonna do opk as well closer to when I should ov
Might do them the whole cycle to get better pic.
Thanks xx

 

[mrs.green2015]

Go catch the egg!!

Basically the doc went over all my history and then agreed it sounds like I'm not ovulating and said I have two options: keep tracking and see if my cycles regulate themselves. Or go to the fertility specialist. I was in complete shock and asked her what she recommends. And she said hold on while she looked over my chart (my history from my old doc and test she had run thyroid ect) and then said she recommends seeing the specialist. Along with continuing to loose weight to see the FS for all the test since that's the first step. Hubs is on board and thinks is all worth it and fine and I'm just in shock and upset.