I think I ovulated :D anybody wanna wait with me?

[Dtrisha]

Don't stress yourself out. They say it's normal in early pregnancy. Just if it gets any worse go see someone. That's how my ectopic started unfortunately but every time I wiped it was bright red and wasn't easing up. I'm not trying to scare you just informing.

 

[CountryMomma]

I'm trying not to, just had several CPs and never had early bleeding like this so it is all new to me. It is just very light pink whenever I wipe and still lots of creamy CM.

 

[Dtrisha]

Then I think you're fine ! Once you start betas you'll feel better.

 

[CountryMomma]

Yeah, I have to get a good line on a HPT before I get blood draws usually because they always do a urine test first.. I will just request a blood draw.. Ill have to be mean lol

 

[Dtrisha]

Oh really? If you're worried they should be able to send you for blood. It's your body!

 

[CountryMomma]

Yeah they are dumb and don't want to spend the money for the blood test unless they get a positive urine test for sure! With one of my chemicals I had gotten like 3 positive FRER and went to Dr and there urine test was negative so they wouldn't send me for blood work.. now its kind of moot since it was a chemical and I started bleeding about a week late for AF but still.. they should have sent me for bloods.

 

[Dtrisha]

Yeah that's not right. Well I hope this is a sticky bean .

 

[CountryMomma]

Thanks so much, I really do too. I cant handle another CP right now.. you would think I would learn not to test so damn early.

 

[Dtrisha]

It's so hard not to. Cause you never know when you'll get a positive ! I can't handle another ectopic right now either so I'm hoping if we are it's healthy and makes it.

 

[CountryMomma]

Did you lose a tube or anything from your ectopic? I can imagine that is a very hard thing to go through. Are they more common if you have one to have another one? I am sure you will be fine for the next bean to snuggle into the right spot!

 

[Dtrisha]

No I didn't lose any tubes thankfully. Was only about 4 1/2 weeks and levels were at about 500. And yes they're more common now that I had one. But I still have a better chance of having a healthy pregnancy. I believe it is like 80-20. They said I would just be kept a eye on closer now. Betas right off the bat and ultrasounds sooner.

 

[CountryMomma]

Well that is good that you didnt have any permanent damage. But also good that you will be monitored closely and you have more of a chance for a healthy pregnancy. I am sure you will be just fine!

 

[Dtrisha]

That's what I keep telling myself. I'm being pretty positive. Or trying to be anyway. For one I'm still young and for teo she said a lot of people have one and if they have methotrexate then it clears it up sometimes. But I'm hoping I ovulate from the other side. I don't ever get ovulation pain or anything so I never know. I just want a healthy baby is that to much to ask? Why do our bodies have to be cruel to us. But I made it through so I guess whatever happens is meant to be. It's a struggle but I'm still here.

 

[CountryMomma]

Hey that's what matters. That you just keep moving. I had a miscarriage at 8 weeks back in 2010 and it was very very hard for me as it was my DH and I's first baby together but we rallied and got pregnant again a few months later. I have always been able to get pregnant fairly easily it's just getting them to stick around. We tried the longest with our last and that was 11 months. Just got to keep your head up and stay positive!

 

[dinky]

Country I do see a faint line on that test, just wish they would darken for you

 

[dimmu]

Hi dinky have you o'ed yet?
My cm has gone sticky now so def o'ed now, no symptoms to speak of but feeling really rundown still.

 

[dinky]

Not sure yet dimmu, thought I saw a little bit of ewcm last time I went to the loo but we dtd this morning so could of been that! Hope I don't see any ewcm today I'm sick of seeing it lol! Glad to hear you have o'd that soya stuff must of done it's job!!

 

[dimmu]

I hope you've ovulated now. With all that ewcm it sounds like your body is trying to o but for some reason can't.

Soya didn't bring my o forward as I was hoping, would be nice to have a shorter cycle. Was hoping to o on cd13 or something, ambitious I know!! But at least I did ovulate in the end on cd20. Remains to be seen if the soya made any difference with the egg quality and maturity!

 

[dinky]

Ohh I thought it had brought it forward!! Isn't it annoying ovulating so late!! Before the mc my periods were quite short for the few months

 

[dinky]

Ohh I thought you o'd earlier than normal. Isn't it rubbish how we have to wait so long?? My cycles were quite short leading upto my last bfp. Hope it don't start going long and anovulatory, don't think I could handle that