I'm co-sleeping, feeding on demand, baby-wearing and doing everything that will apparently 'spoil' my baby. To me though it all feels so natural that I'm certain of doing the right thing for my little girl. However, I feel like I have to hide all of these things from family and friends as nobody else seems to understand. Nobody apart from my husband knows that we co-sleep and if she's hungry when other people are here I lie and tell them she last fed 3 hours ago when really it was only 20mins ago! If anyone sees her napping in my arms I pretend that she's just dropped off to sleep rather than admitting that she always naps in my arms. I know I'm doing the right thing but everyone else makes me feel so guilty.