Im Adopting two babies! - Adoption Journal.

[PeaceLoveBaby]

Poor you hun It's so scary when you don't know whats going on..especially with so much on the line. Thinking of you xx

 

[xMissxZoiex]

I didnt get a chance to ring SS today but i have another message of her this today saying that he is her son not mine, He will never be mine and no one wants me to have him . I didnt reply to her message

She doesnt care that we can offer him the best.

What a stressful day ive had that hanging over me and plus we have moved house today which is stressful on its own i just want to curl up in a ball and cry

 

[babyhopes2010]

x

 

[lucy_x]

x x

 

[hopeandpray]

 

[Betheney]

they usually do prefer if family want to take them tho don't they??? i'm not trying to put a damper on it but they do favour family right?

 

[wishing4bub#3]

massive hugs. i hope you get some good news soon.

 

[xSamanthax]

I've only just found this journal, i really hope you get some answers soon hun, i think what you are trying to do is a wonderfull thing and i really hope you get them both

 

[sophxx]

sorry things are not working out they seem to be a lot more complicated. remember though just cos things might not work out theres no reason why you can still apply to adopt or foster theres loads of children who need loving familys like you x

 

[AFwife77]

I hope everything works out for you!

 

[Care76]

I am sorry you are going through this.

I would ignore what the bio-mom has to say. If SS is taking the baby right away, then it should be their call. Depending on the situation they may want family or friends to take them, or they may want strangers to. CAS actually went against us because we knew the bio-mom of our boys (she used to be a neighbour), we even offered to move away. I would talk to the adotion worker and see what can be done. If they don't get back to you, call the supervisor of your SS. Do not take your time with this, believe me. Demand answers.

Wish you luck! FX

 

[wookie130]

Ugh, I'm frustrated for you. What do you think may have prompted all of these negative messages? The birth mother doesn't actually think she's going to keep her children, does she? It sounded so favorable in the beginning... I would not hesitate to speak with the adoption specialists on this, and SS as well. It's just too wierd, this sudden change of heart. They will only favor family if the best interests of the children are with family, otherwise they will look beyong them to satisfy those needs. I am praying for you, and hope that you can raise these children. But please try to keep your heart open to other prospective children that need a loving home. Know that you will become parents to a child that truly needs you. It will happen, when the time and circumstances are right. Keep your chin up, and stay strong! Best of luck!

 

[molly85]

Hugs Zoie! Ignore teh witch there is obviously not some thing right with her. Hope they are with you very soon

 

[QuintinsMommy]

 

[Betheney]

I hope to hear soon how you are getting on.

 

[vaniilla]

hope all is well

 

[EllaAndLyla]

hope everythings going well! xx

 

[xSamanthax]

Any updates yet? x

 

[xMissxZoiex]

I should hopefully have an update tomorrow

 

[Betheney]

that is accompanied with a smiley face.... this seems promising!!!

My fingers are crossed.