"impatiently waiting and complaining" IVF November/December/end of the year bumps

[Anxiously]

I'm so sorry afam... we are here for you.

 

[Sandy83]

Good luck on Beta today Michelle, cant wait to hear your news! sending you lots of

L4 Good luck with Transfer today, you will be PUPO very soon yay!

hope everyone else is doing good xx

 

[Afamilygal]

Thanks to everyone, you are all so sweet. I wish this didn't hurt quite so badly. I thought that since I was told the chances were slim that maybe I would be better prepared for it to not work but it still feels awful.
Im trying to get my Dr to see my sooner, I need to know if we are going to be doing another or if I need to find an ED.
shit. just writing that made me burst into tears.

I wanted to sign on quickly to say GL To L4 today! Im thinking of you!

and to you too Michelle- best of luck with the beta!

xx

 

[michelle01]

Good luck today L4

Afam - Take the time you need; after my second failure I was so numb! I couldn't understand what was wrong with me or why it just would not work. I mean I know the odds, but still, so many get their BFP on the first try and here I was after 2 and nothing! I just thought it was so unfair and found myself to be bitter towards pg women that I saw or ones at work that were not even trying. It took me awhile to get past that and once I started again, I felt better. So I really hope that is the case for you and your DH! Talk to you FS, take the time you need and when you start again, I really will be praying that you get your turn to be a mommy

 

[Sandy83]

Michelle just seen your signature, congratulations on your beta thats amazing news. You are a great success story that if it doesn't work first our even second time there is still hope for us all yay! :happy dance: xxx

 

[L4hope]

Michelle congrats on your bfp! Beautiful beta!

Afam, thanks for getting on to send well wishes. You absolutely didn't have to. It's so crushing to find out it doesn't work no matter what your odds are. I was given less than 10% with my FET and I was still heartbroken. I hope your doctor will see you sooner so you can move forward with another cycle or find a way to accept that maybe ED is the path you need to take. I really hope you can try another cycle on your own! I'll be thinking of you girl!

AFM, transfer went really well. My first cycle I only had one grade A blast which is the worst by my docs chart. Today I had two GradeD blasts which are the best! I was so happy it brought tears to my eyes. I know I have a long way to go yet, but definitely feeling more hopeful!

Love to all!!

 

[Sandy83]

L4hope congratulations in being pupo! Yay xx

 

[michelle01]

L4 - CONGRATS on being PUPO!! Sounds like this might be the cycle for you Take it easy and rest up as you begin your 2WW Will you test early? And when is your beta?

And thanks Sandy! I never imagined it would take 3 cycles to get here, but even so, there are many more hurdles to get past! I know that you have to keep trying if you really want something! It CAN happen!

 

[septbride]

L4, those blasts sound great!

Afam, I hope you're hanging in there. Keep your head up, honey.

Michelle, congrats again!!

My beta is FINALLY almost here...going in on Wednesday morning.

 

[Snowbunny]

Michelle - congrats again!

L4 - welcome to pupo land. It sounds like you have some great embies on board!

Septbride - ill be thinking about you fxd for a bfp.

 

[Kirs_t]

Michelle- congratulations! What a great beta! Did you transfer two embies? I bet it's twins

L4 - congratulations on being pupo!! Exciting times.... Wishing you lots of love for the TWW. Snuggle in lil beanie!

Sept- good luck for your beta! How are you feeling? Any symptoms? Looking forward to your update?

Afam- how are you doing? Xxxc

 

[L4hope]

Thank you ladies!!!

Michelle you are definitely an inspirational story for many of us! My beta is scheduled for 12/20. I'm not yet sure if I'll test before or not. We'll see...

 

[michelle01]

Kirs - I had two blasts tranferred and today I am 18dpo, so it can go either way! How are you feeling?

L4 - Thanks! It sure was a long year of IVF to get to this point and hope it sticks. Still nervous.

Afam - Thinking about you hun....big

Hope everyone else is good!

 

[L4hope]

Completely understand Michelle! I wonder after all we've been through if we can really reach a point where you don't worry. But in the early stages for sure. You have a good strong beta though so it's looking very good that you have a keeper!!

 

[lochbride]

Afam I'm so sorry, I can imagine you are on an awful sad rollercoaster - please accept some peace and love from someone who's been through it too.

The fact that in the next breath I'm saying congrats Michelle sums up this cruel journey. It's so hard because there's no right or wrong, there's no guessing what will happen or when your BFP is just round the corner. However we have to celebrate the good stuff so Michelle, I've got everything crossed for a building beta.

At least we are all here to give a little support.

Sept, how are you feeling? Beta tomorrow right?

I'm suffering from major night sweats - a total AF thing for me, cramping a few days ago, also very AF. My beta is due on Thursday and I am in the throes of 2WW hell. Yesterday was very bad, maximum doubt all my positive energy seems to have disappeared despite the fact the DH is so good at keeping afloat. Slightly better this morning, let's see what a day in the office does for me

Wishing you all luck xx

 

[septbride]

Loch, I'm sorry you're having a rough go of the 2WW with the night sweats and all. Thank goodness for the DHs and their pep talks during this time. Just two more torturous days!

L4, congrats on the transfer!

Michelle, wishing you a nice strong second beta.

AFM, I'm pretty sure I'm looking at a second failed cycle -- started spotting yesterday and have all my usual AF symptoms. We'll see. Going in early tomorrow morning for the beta. Feeling very low and a bit cruelly done by, with my best friend's effortless pregnancy looming over this 2WW. Just trying to keep my head up this week.

Hope all are well!

xoxo

 

[Sandy83]

Fx'd for tomorrow Sept, thinking of you at this hard time xx

 

[michelle01]

I hope you get good news tomorrow Sept Hang in there, and remember AF and PG symptoms are identical!

 

[L4hope]

Loch you are almost there girl! Glad your dh is helping to keep your spirits up.

Sept good luck tomorrow. And what Michelle said is too true. You can't think about the symptoms cuz they're all the same and spotting happens to a lot of pregnant women. Sorry you're having such a tough week with your friends news. Hopefully tomorrow will turn around for you.

How's everyone ele doing??

 

[lochbride]

Good luck for tomorrow Sept - fixed for a second IVF success for both of us xx