wow.
Id never expect anyone to buy a thing for MY kids. My ex-inlaws seem to be rolling in it. Doesnt mean I expect them to buy anything for my son or baby. They didnt offer anything for Joshua until I reached 35 weeks and they very kindly offered to pay for the pram. I made sure it wasnt an expensive one because I felt bad. Over the past 5 years theyve bought lots for him (not really stuff given to me, but stuff like car seats for their car, clothes to have at theirs when they want to have him over night, days out for him..) i never expect a thing off them and anything they do CHOOSE to do i highly appreciate, but i wouldnt think any less of them if they never done anything.
As for this baby, theyve said they want to give me £250 to put on my mothercare babyplan, which i, again, highly appreciate, but dont expect. They're not there to pay for YOUR child. Thats your job! They are there to enjoy being grandparents, and if they choose not to be very involved, that is also their choice.
My mum has bought a couple of outfits and the bouncer. Again, not expected but appreciated. You sound rather snotty in your post and immature. Also, your only 23 weeks gone. You have loads of time to go!