Because Sticks gets cold faster; I take Sticks out of the tub faster, and Abby is such a good girl that she just sits there and stares up at me like "please mommy, take me out now?"
So obviously something's wrong with me and I don't know what, and we can keep 
going which is wonderful, but there's no way to time it or to even suppose it's going to lead to anything 
I'm super bummed, but she was too big for Sticks...she kept swatting her about and I was scared that Sticks was going to end up with a broken back.
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atleast now we can put our mind at ease knowing that we are safe. He even gave us stickers to put up so it can make thieves think twice about coming to break into our house. Also still waiting for TSA to get through the bankground check and after that I will be working So we are going to fax the medical papers off today and then pretty much wait for everything to clear. Then when next AF starts, we are going to buy a box of the FR fertility tests and take the test on cd3. If the results are the same, then I will schedule an appt with doctor. Either way, I am going to schedule an appt because i have to get a check up for this year anyways. Everything is going good for us right now. I was thinking about that psychic that said im going to get male advice (im thinking thats going to be my ob/gyn) in a few months and not long after we will concieve most likely a boy. Thats what she said. So im thinking she pretty much saying im going to go to the doctor, he's going to find out the issue, he will fix it and then we will concieve a boy after. Now its looking like her prediction, is in the process of being correct but we shall see. She said within these 4-8 months. And im already on month 2 next month will be month 3 and i should get everything done in that month, AF, testing with fertility test, doc appt etc and then month 4 will probably be a test run so lets see if i concieve a november (my dad's birth month) or december baby. Im thinking if i concieve in december (my & my mom's birth month), then the baby will be born in september not too far after DH's birthday so that would be a gift to both of us.
im pregnant. To her it will be okay she is telling me but being thoughtful and caring about my feelings etc. Hope i helped.
Well imo, since she is your good friend, you should tell her the news but at the same time be understanding that yes it may upset her because she just lost a child. Just tell her i have something to tell you but i dont know if its the correct timing because of the situation you are going through at the moment but i would just like to let you know that i found out im pregnant and let her know you're nervous and scared because you see what she had to go through and just tell ehr how you feel. I think if you go to her that way, she wont be annoyed and upset and at the same time you are consoling her and it wont seem like YAY
rjsman you're in a difficult one. Your friend has been through the same as myself. I was also 10wks and had an emergency scan as I was spotting. My baby was measuring 8.5wks and had no heartbeat; luckily I started mc'ing the following day. The wait for mc is horrible.
And taking into account the situation it's the same or very similar I think it'll be difficult for her to cope with your news. Even more if you say it was her 1st baby. How close are you? How is she with other people? For example one of my friends is nearly 18wks pregnant. I was just 10 days behind her in my pregnancy. I only heard about her pregnancy when I came back from Spain and at first I was shocked, then very pleased for her but with a mixture of sadness for my loss. When I saw her for the first time after the news I was as happy as I managed to be but we ended up crying for my loss. She also was very understanding and lovely with me.
I truly think it depends on your relationship with her and how she is. I have no right to be jealous or mad about other people being pregnant instead of me because it's out of my hands; what happened happened and I can only hope I'll be lucky again and have a healthy pregnancy. If I want this for me how can I be selfish and not wish the same for others?
Good luck Hun!
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