I know this is an old post, but I have only just read it as I took a couple of months' break from BnB. I just wanted to say that my husband and I live in the SW, own our own home with a 40% mortgage on it (ie, own 60% outright) so only have smallish mortgage repayments; he brings home 1550 a month before overtime or bonuses (which put it up to a bit over 1600 averaged out); I bring home £1050 from my main job (because my student loan is taken out at the same time as tax and NICs), about £80 after tax from my casual job with disabled children, and in September I will be starting another job where I will bring home about 500 a month. So our household NET income is well over 3k a month (so 36k a year) and WE STRUGGLE even with a small mortgage, so I don't think those saying 20k is an OK wage are meaning to be offensive at all - it's just that when you bring home that kind of money and struggle, you find it hard to understand how you could cope on less.
We don't have children atm (we are TTC) but we have 2 horses that cost us around £600 a month altogether. The mortgage is 570 with the insurance. We have cars, household bills (which we scrimp on a lot), food to buy etc. It all goes down and we are really tight with our money in respect of household bills, always looking for the cheapest on everything.
I'd love a lesson in how to manage on much less than what we do, because it would mean we could save more. We don't have any debt and do manage to save £100 a month, but even so... After we have paid for the horses, we have about 2.5k a month (net) left over, so if anyone can tell me where I'm going wrong, I'd really appreciate it!