felix555
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As you will tell from my post, I do not intend for this to be a debate about CIO/CC I am rather just asking for advice because I am completely desperate.
My LO is 6 months old, he's always been a really bad sleeper from the start really but it really has got so bad now and I feel when I tell people "my baby sleeps badly" they think I am being over dramatic. I have started to keep logs of his sleeping because I try different things all the time and want to see if things are improving by looking back at the logs (they're really not)
A typical night would be:
bed: 20:30
then wakes up at:
21:29,
23:17,
22:40,
00:04,
00:46,
01:10,
03:09,
03:51,
05:16 until 06:03,
07:05,
awake for the day 08:15
This is quite typical but sometimes it can be worse, never really better than that though.
I suspected he has a lactose intolerance but he is on dairy and lactose free milk now ... now i wonder if that is not making his reflux worse. But I am starting to think maybe really is just a bad, bad sleeper.
I blame myself, I've never left him to cry more than half a minute and still hold him for all his naps. literally everyone tells me I have spoilt him and I am really thinking I have and I feel so guilty because he must be sleep deprived and I am too.
I have tried everything, I have read every sleep book. I have tried earlier bedtime, later bedtime etc.
I have had a similar post to this about a month ago and got some really helpful answers, most ladies agreed that I should leave him to learn to self settl ... But I am now desperate and thinking CIO/CC is the only way to break his bad habit?
Ughh I don't know
My LO is 6 months old, he's always been a really bad sleeper from the start really but it really has got so bad now and I feel when I tell people "my baby sleeps badly" they think I am being over dramatic. I have started to keep logs of his sleeping because I try different things all the time and want to see if things are improving by looking back at the logs (they're really not)
A typical night would be:
bed: 20:30
then wakes up at:
21:29,
23:17,
22:40,
00:04,
00:46,
01:10,
03:09,
03:51,
05:16 until 06:03,
07:05,
awake for the day 08:15
This is quite typical but sometimes it can be worse, never really better than that though.
I suspected he has a lactose intolerance but he is on dairy and lactose free milk now ... now i wonder if that is not making his reflux worse. But I am starting to think maybe really is just a bad, bad sleeper.
I blame myself, I've never left him to cry more than half a minute and still hold him for all his naps. literally everyone tells me I have spoilt him and I am really thinking I have and I feel so guilty because he must be sleep deprived and I am too.
I have tried everything, I have read every sleep book. I have tried earlier bedtime, later bedtime etc.
I have had a similar post to this about a month ago and got some really helpful answers, most ladies agreed that I should leave him to learn to self settl ... But I am now desperate and thinking CIO/CC is the only way to break his bad habit?
Ughh I don't know