It fell out! 2 births so far! :-)

[inkdchick]

hi girls, first of all mamma im so sorry to hear what u r going thru and send u lots of hugs, Nat will come back soon to see the piocs of yor little girl, waitin Alex is gorgeous and grown so quick, i think ive been away longer than i thought.
Sorry i havent been here to support you girls i have been through a bit of shit since i was lst on i had both knees operated on in march this year the right knee is perfect but they have cocked up my left one and have been in so much pain. i had a part-time job but that was temporary for 6 months and so that ended 3 weeks ago so i thought well i cant work and stand on my feet for long so i think its about time i went professional so i have set up my own business am called Original Tattoo Designs .co.uk and am in the process of building a website which is soooo hard, and am still awaiting my busines cards but all in all im excited and worried all at the same time.
We are no longer trying for a baby as such its now a case of if it ever happens then it does so but am pleased and not worried about it anymore and need to look forward as im 46 this christmas and well i cant keep trying forever but i wish all you lovely ladies the very best in trying and secceeding i might add and i will pop on again but if anyone wants to keep in contact then pm me and i will give you my contacts details
love to you all xxx

 

[mamadonna]

Ah ink its lovely to hear from you,sorry they have only managed today one knee,i hope its not giving you to much trouble

well done on ur web site that's great!I'll have to have a look sometime

 

[inkdchick]

aww thank you hun hope you are ok and i'll let you know when its finished for veiwing xx

 

[mamadonna]

Yeah I'm fine just sick of waiting around,seems all i have done for the last 3 yrs

I'm tryin not to think about the lost pregnancy too much i had to stop thinking about how many wks i would have been etc,need to look to the future.although I'll never forgot my little angels.

 

[inkdchick]

honey you never do forget my first loss was at 22 and half weeks and he would have been 24 this year !!, but you do learn to cope but you never forget it makes you stronger in the long run and you will be ok just dont think too much about it and try and stay relaxed and things will work out for you...
im struggling with trying to give up smoking at the moment my other half is so distant from me and it has ruined our relationship , the reason i started again is coz of the pain in my left knee and hips somedays its unbearable and because its bone pain there is nothing i can take only nurofen which i am taking around 12 of those a day but it doesnt touch it although so far no headaches lol am seeing the specialist again on the 2nd october so hopefully he will tell me they are going to operate again and do it properly this time and then with any luck no more hip pain...
I will keep coming back on just to see how you are doing honey ok speak to you soon if not pm me and i will give you my email and contact details xx

 

[mamadonna]

Ah 22 wks that must have been so hard i was 16 wks and that was bad enough!that baby would have been 14 now.anniversaries are always hard

I started smoking again after my loss this yr wish i hadn't but i will stop again

I'll pm you it'll be nice to keep in touch x

 

[Nat0619]

Hi Ladies

How are we all?

Ink, great to hear from you. So sorry about the pain you are in with your knees though I do hope they can get that sorted for you very soon. I'll PM you too as will be nice to stay in touch. Us girls have been chatting for a long time now

I still wonder what happened with Toots and hope she's ok

Mama, when will you get the results you are waiting on?

DG, how are things with you?

Donna, good to hear from you too, hope you're feeling better.

Kim, can't believe how much Alex is growing up, he's so cute I'll prepare myself for the injuries to come as Ciara gets older I'm already regularly getting hit in the face and my hair pulled

I've still got to load photos off my camera! Promise to do this very soon and upload some recent pics of our little girl. She was 5 months old yesterday

x

 

[mamadonna]

Hi Nat my word where have the last 5 months gone ?

It could be anytime in the next 3-4 wks,i wish they'd hurry up lol

 

[deafgal01]

Hmm, same. We've made progress yet we're kinda stuck so still not pregnant, and thrown myself into a crazy busy schedule. However, we do now have a plan of action- using fertility specialist to help me get pregnant next year but in order to afford the iui treatments, we've decided to save up for it rather than look for loans or whatever. Just started a baby fund at a separate bank from where I get my money so I'd be less tempted to touch it once I move funds into it monthly. I still need to go in and get my blood screened/tested prior to selecting donors for the iui.

 

[inkdchick]

Ah 22 wks that must have been so hard i was 16 wks and that was bad enough!that baby would have been 14 now.anniversaries are always hard

I started smoking again after my loss this yr wish i hadn't but i will stop again

I'll pm you it'll be nice to keep in touch x

Honey i gave up yesterday and am using 1.5mg Niquitine mini's mint ones to help me and we can use them when trying to conceive and breastfeeding as long as you breastfeed for a while before to take a mini lozenge and then baby doesnt get any of the tiny amount of nicotine that we get from the sweet itself and it works i was smoking 10-14 a day and yesterday i had one first thing and thought na no more ive had enough went to tesco and bought a triple pack of mint mini niqitine lozenges and i had one about 12.30pm and then another one at about 8.30pm last night and i felt brilliant and i had one this morning at 8.30 but it really does take awayt he cravings.

i am however 9 days past ov and have had cramping pains on a off for the last 3 days now really low down and yeah we did it three morning on the trot right over ov days with the BIG OV day being the middle one my other half just will not give up trying love him , but al least if anything do happen then i wont have that guilty feeling so its got to be good xx give it a go hun you can do it we will do it together xxx

 

[mamadonna]

Oo i will definitely give them a try thank you,i know i can do it i have no problem when pg,so will definitely be good if we can try together,i am 6dpo are they safe if by some miracle i am pg?

 

[inkdchick]

well it says on the leaflet that comes with them to use them as early as you can in your pregnancy so that when you are further on and you wont be needing them by that time and then u and baby will be extremely safe, ive been using them for two days now and i am 10 dpo so and all i can say is that i am at the moment craving carbohydrates something chronic lol so gonna have egg and bacon on toast for dinner tonight i think that ticks some of my needy boxes lol not after chocolate so far so we"ll see and good luck xx

 

[mamadonna]

First few days are always the hardest,i know as soon as i get a bfp I'll stop but it would be great to stop b4!good luck to you too hun x

 

[inkdchick]

well im now 12 days past ov my periods before taking the vit B12 methyl would have been on cd 24 but today is cd25 ad still no sign of it and as of this cycle i ov'd on cd13 YAY all months previously were cd8 or cd9 so this is brilliant back to what it was when i was in my 20's i still take B9 folic acid too but these are the only things i am now taking so watch this space.

I said before that i wasnt going to try any more but the truth is girls with all the docs and specialists over the past 14 months constantly telling you that its not gonna happen AT OUR AGE, your eggs will be no good AT YOUR AGE, the chances of natural conception is very minimal AT YOUR AGE , you really do start to believe it they even told me that i was beginning to menopause because my cycles were shorter and after nearly a year of believeing them i began to get angry at being told what i can do and what i cant (typical for me im not the normal looking 45 year old you have ever seen so this isnt a suprise to people here that know me), and i started to search for a possible natural alternative to my problem and low and behold i found it.....

I had been taking Vit B9 - folic acid for years so knew i was ok in that Vit department but was so pleased to see that Vit B12 Methyl could help me and have been taking it for nearly 3 months now and my cycle this months has improved to what it should be and was when i was 20 years younger it is now 27 to 28 days long with an ovulation at cycle day 13 so i am over the moon and am currently 2 days away from my expected period date although we caught the good strongest three days over ov in the mornings too you never can tell until after the af date has past so like i said watch this space!, coz if i am then i can only contribute it happening down to taking the B12 methyl 1000mcg vitamin once a day!

 

[mamadonna]

Oo exciting stuff I'll be keeping everything crossed!!

 

[deafgal01]

Good luck Ink! I'm hoping for some great news from you!

 

[inkdchick]

thanks girls xxx
how are you deafgal hows things for you

 

[deafgal01]

Ink- well it's going good. I'm going to be stuck in "not pregnant" land for maybe another year, but hopefully not long after that I'll definitely be knocked up. Right now, I'm in progress of saving up money for the fertility treatments and getting the required blood screening for diseases before we do the fertility treatment. Looking forward to that.

 

[mamadonna]

Evening ladies!

Ink when will you test?

 

[inkdchick]

i might do one in the morning but these bloody tests never work for me so am not hoping to see anything and then if its neg will do one again on monday morn as hubby will be here and it will be before he starts back to work on tues as he is on three days of earlies so hopefully fingers crossed it all works this time