It's been 7 weeks since mc but still not af...when to ring the GP?

[mlm115]

MLM- I want to try this cycle too. I want to bd as much as possible to maximize chances. The problem is I have no idea when I'm going to ovulate as my cycle is so messed up. One of my besties had a baby girl today. I'm so happy for her but kinda feeling sorry for myself which I know is selfish. She's called her Erin which is just a gorgeous name. How long were you trying for all together before you got your bfp? I'm sure it won't take too long- its just trying to be patient which is hard...

I think I am going to bd as much as possible when I get my positive opk.
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Yeah, I'm curious to see if my body will cycle normally now, I definitely am going to use opks so I know when I'm for sure ovulating. I got pregnant on my second cycle of trying last time, so it was pretty fast then.

I don't think it's selfish to feel that way with your friend's baby. It's totally normal (at least I hope it is, cause I feel that way a lot!). It's not that you aren't happy for them, it just makes you think about how much you want a baby too.

Mack, I agree with the others that dark and brown spotting is ok from what I know. Especially if its such a small amount. I totally get being scared though, I'm sure I would feel the same.

 

[mlm115]

Also, I am definitely NOT in the mood at all. I will have to fake like I am so I can get my hubby to bd on the right days this cycle haha

 

[bobster]

Also, I am definitely NOT in the mood at all. I will have to fake like I am so I can get my hubby to bd on the right days this cycle haha

lol!!! so glad there are others the same...

 

[mlm115]

I just bought first response digital opks.... $49.99 holy crap!! They better work for that price!

Did you talk to your doc yet Mack?? Hoping you got good news!

 

[mackjess]

I just bought first response digital opks.... $49.99 holy crap!! They better work for that price!

Did you talk to your doc yet Mack?? Hoping you got good news!

Left a vmail with my doctors nurse. Since I had the spotting issue over the weekend it will probably take a bit longer for her to call back because she will wait until she talks to the doctor before calling me. LOL, I shouldn't have said anything and bombarded her when she called with my lab results from Friday. Really hoping they have me back to check if my HCG is rising.

 

[GI_Jane]

I just bought first response digital opks.... $49.99 holy crap!! They better work for that price!

Did you talk to your doc yet Mack?? Hoping you got good news!

Bloody hell, that a lot- how many opk's in the pack? Will you just need 10 for the SMEP?

 

[GI_Jane]

Also, I am definitely NOT in the mood at all. I will have to fake like I am so I can get my hubby to bd on the right days this cycle haha

lol!!! so glad there are others the same...

We both only seem awake enough to want to do it at the weekend so if I get that Ewcm during the week it's going to be an uphill struggle to !!

 

[mackjess]

GI Jane - My thyroid doctor is seriously one of the hottest, most charismatic men I have ever seen. I had an appt with him last month and I think it may have helped with the condition I now find myself in, as I rarely want to BD during the week but I suddenly wanted to that one Tuesday. Hehe. Seriously...hot. And very sweet and clueless about it. He has been telling me for 7 years I am missing out not having kids, that he was good at making babies (swoon, even though he meant just at supporting the thyroid) and was excited with this appt that we finally decided to try. It is a real shame I only have to see him 1-2 times a year.

 

[GI_Jane]

GI Jane - My thyroid doctor is seriously one of the hottest, most charismatic men I have ever seen. I had an appt with him last month and I think it may have helped with the condition I now find myself in, as I rarely want to BD during the week but I suddenly wanted to that one Tuesday. Hehe. Seriously...hot. And very sweet and clueless about it. He has been telling me for 7 years I am missing out not having kids, that he was good at making babies (swoon, even though he meant just at supporting the thyroid) and was excited with this appt that we finally decided to try. It is a real shame I only have to see him 1-2 times a year.

Haha, love it- clearly he is good at making baby's by providing mental stimulation!

 

[bobster]

Hahaha! Thats too funny Mack! Well it certainly did the trick! Hope you are ok, i'm sure they will repeat your hcg.

 

[mackjess]

Going on for my followup labs now and will be waiting oh so patiently for results tomorrow.

 

[mlm115]

Going on for my followup labs now and will be waiting oh so patiently for results tomorrow.

Good luck!

 

[GI_Jane]

Going on for my followup labs now and will be waiting oh so patiently for results tomorrow.

Hey Mack, did you get your new hcg levels yet today? Sorry just excited for you, I have a good feeling!

 

[mackjess]

Newp. They called at 11:34 yesterday. It's now 11:38. About to go out of my mind. LOL.

 

[mackjess]

I've even been going to the bathroom more, cause you know if you are expecting a call it's going to happen while you are in the stall or something.

Thanks for thinking of me.

 

[GI_Jane]

Newp. They called at 11:34 yesterday. It's now 11:38. About to go out of my mind. LOL.

I bet you are. I'm off for a run now (it's 5.40 pm here) so hope to read some news when I get back!

Did you have your one to one with your new boss?

 

[mackjess]

Not yet, that's in about an hour and 15. SO hope I get a call before then so I won't be frazzled. I am taking my phone in there with me and he will have to deal with me running out of his office real quick if they call then. Heh

Enjoy your run!

 

[mackjess]

My HCG was 30 on Friday and 232 on Monday. Thank heavens.

 

[GI_Jane]

That's great news. What happens now, will they continue to monitor bloods or is that it until your first scan?

 

[mackjess]

I'm not sure. The OB is super swamped today. When the nurse called me she said she wasn't supposed to because the doctor hadn't signed off on the results, but she knew I'd be waiting. BLESS HER!! I guess I better act surprised when the doc does call back.

The nurse said the OB will call and go over the results, the do's/dont's, and when she wants to see me next. I think I will go in for a scan in 2 weeks, but I'm not sure yet if they will keep checking my blood.