Hi, I went to see my RE today for the pain after my D&C.... Actually the pain was much improved this am when I woke up so I wasnt going to go but since it still was there and I am tender to touch, I went. Everything checked out normal. He thinks the pain is from my fibroid degenerating due to the quick downfall in hormones after the D&C. Nothing looked abnormal on examination. It would be perfect if that little guy shrinks!
Also my tissue sample came back partially. It only came back on me (well, my DNA anyways), which was normal. He said the more detailed analysis may give some more answers. IDK if it will be of any help because there was sooo little tissue. But, I will wait.
My RE is going to discuss the last 2 IVF cycles with his partners. He wants to make sure he is not missing anything that lead to the failure then to the MC. On paper everything looked great and I should have been pg the first go around. I go back on March 19th. I told him we are taking off until the summer and he said this was a great idea so we can have a mental health break (yes, I need one of these!).
So hopefully when I go in on the 19th he will have some answers and have meet with the other REs and come up with a solution. He offered PGD but I don't want to go this route. I've researched it and do not think it would be a benefit right now. I also dont want to risk losing any embies, which he said is a small risk. But if we have only made 5 out of 23 then its a risk I am not willing to take. Maybe I can talk him into putting in more than 2? We had 3 blasts last time (unfortunately the last one wasnt good enough for freezing).... Putting 3 scares me, but putting 2 in has been unsuccessful. I want the next cycle to be agressive as can be because after this we are out for a long while. IDK- I will just have to wait for things at the next meeting.
Good luck everyone who got their BFPS! Its so exciting that its working for so many! There has to be a percentage of women who it doesnt work for and I guess thats me. Someday though. I look forward to the updates on ultrasounds and such. I imagine this thread dying down soon after everyone has their ultrasounds and moves on the the first trimester section. I will definately update when I hear something and when I have my next cycle. Please keep fingers crossed for me that the third time is the charm