Hi lovetoeatcake, we had ICSI and now have a gorgeous healthy baby boy. My hubby had three very poor SA results. He made some small changes, drinking more water, rather than pop etc, baggy underwear, mobile not in pocket. He was advised to take zinc and a really high dose of vitamin C. I think the levels are lower in multi vits so you need a individual vit C in the highest dose you can find.
Just before we started the cycle he produced a normal sample, and also a normal sample for EC. We still had ICSI cos of the original samples, and I'm so glad we did as we had poor fertilisation and I think if we had ivf we would have had no embies!
What you have to remember is that there is a risk of abnormalities with any pregnancy, and any risks with ivf/ICSI are still low overall xxx