How did you get past it? I'm scared to death of this happening again. In my heart I can't give up though. I want to go back to my old clinic and see what they say when this nightmare is over.
Well, I had my son first without any issues. Then I decided to have another. That one ended in miscarriage at about 6 weeks or so. My OB just simply told me he didn't think I would have anymore trouble. That 1 out of 3 pregnancies end that way. I accepted my odds and pushed forward. (keep in mind no fertility issues then) With the next cycle I got pregnant with DD. I was a nervous wreck that whole pregnancy. I found out I was pregnant with her the day after my husband passed away from a dirt bike accident! Since my husband had adopted my son from a previous marriage it was like literally I was pregnant with the last thing I could hold on to him with. There was alot of ups and downs.
Now, 7 years later my 'new' husband and I decided to NTNP and we got pregnant and that ended in m/c. I was in shock, we told everyone including the kids just as soon as that test showed a line. Then it took us another year of trying then a short break to get our BFP naturally. I'm on pins and needles as to how it will turn out. Who knows
It's not a fair game at all. The only thing I have learned from all of my experiences is simply this...Life can really suck sometimes, we may not always understand the 'why'. Take your time and grieve. Your entiteled to be sad and mad at the world, mad at all the pregnancies that are aborted on purpose, all of the babies born to parents who don't want them. I know I felt that way.
If it's something you can deal with on your own that's great. There are support groups out there for m/c. You may find help in talking with others who have been thru the similar situation. I know so many dreams and hopes were in your little IVF angel. Pm me if you need me and keep us posted on the thread. Praying right now for you and your family.
so sorry. We will continue to support you in your journey. 
