IVF until we all get our bfp! 2012-present *13 w/twins & 1 w/triplets!*

[MrsC8776]

Mobaby and oneof14 - My clinic preffers to transfer blasts so that is why they are not doing fresh. They can't do the fresh transfer on day 7 b\c the embryo's will be out of sync with my body at that point (thansk to DaisyQ for explaining this all to me!) Many clincs do transfers before blast and plenty of women get pregnant. I guess they grow to blasts inside you and then implant. I don't know if they implant before becoming blasts or not

Mrs. C - our lab closes twice a year, once in the summer and again around Christmas, so that it may be cleaned. I think those embryologists just need a well deserved vacay! This only impacts IVFers, not people doing IUI.

Blue, to answer your question, an embie must make it to blast to implant. Successful IVF cycles where day 2 or 3 embies, or day 5 morulas are transferred - those embies continued to develop in utero to blast, and then implanted. You are right - our clinic likes to do only blast transfers. They have very high success rates, and so this is what they thinks works best. That's why they will continue to grow out your embies until blast. And like you said, by the time your embies are blasts, your uterus will no longer be receptive. So it's best to wait, and do the FET. The FET success rates are stellar. DON'T worry. Are you doing CCS/PGD?

Thanks for explaining that. They do deserve a vacation! A good cleaning is also a good thing.

Got the call from my nurse. My E2 levels have not yet risen, it's right around 65. I'm to increase my follistim/gonal F from 300 units to 375 units, and my low dose Hcg from 15 units to 30 units. Yikes. Hope something starts to happen - and of course that it happens to ALL the follicles equally and at the same time.

Fx for you!

 

[michelle01]

Blue - sorry to hear about your news, but August is right around the corner!

I just got my blood results and not such great news.....my natural killer cells were elevated; the high end is 14 and mine were 29, not to mention something called MTHFR which is clotting in pg, mine was high, but said that was something they could control with other meds in my next cycle. Right now they want me to go in tomorrow morning for another blood test to repeat it and make sure it is still that high; if it is, then they refer me to another specialist. So basically starting with my next cycle next week...a NO GO I am so frustrated!!! And starting to actually think its not worth it anymore. Sorry to rant on, I am so upset! I know most of you are trying to concieve your first child and I should be blessed that I have one already, but I wanted more then anything to give him a sibling. I think at times maybe I should just be happy I have him and move on!!

 

[s08]

Have any of you been tested for recurrent miscarriages? I think I've had two chemical pregnancies (one confirmed during this IVF cycle and a second suspected one a year ago). My RE didn't think I needed to be tested since technically I haven't had multiple later term losses, but she was willing to do it if I wanted. I figure it can't hurt, right? I thinks its just one more blood draw...what's one more after all this? Thoughts, anyone?

 

[michelle01]

s08 - I just had a series of blood tests done; see my recent post. I had a chemical in August last year and my MC with my IVF cycle this past Feb/March. It has shed some light and some confusion to say the least, but at least it came back with something, so we can figure out what to do next. My doctor wanted to get answers and rule anything else out before I move onto IVF #2. I think it is worth it!

 

[jchic]

Michelle - I am sorry to hear this I am certain that there is something they can do with the NK cells, no? I have read of women that get meds intergrated into their cycle to help with this. I hope whatever you decide, you are comfortable with! I pray you get your BFP and this is all worth it!

S08 - if you feel that you want answers, I suggest to do it! I mean, whats one more blood draw at this point for some clarity?

 

[JennyLynn512]

Hi ladies--I am 6dp3dt today and got a very, very faint bfp on a FRER test. I did it this afternoon, on a whim. So it wasn't even fmu. Not sure yet if this is residual hcg from the trigger or if this is a true bfp. Anyone heard of someone getting a faint positive 6dp3dt? I plan to test again tomorrow morning with FMU.

 

[jchic]

PS - just a rant here - got the following email from my cousin who is about 7 months pregnant. She has 2 sisters, one whom I am VERY VERY close to....well her sister must have told her what was going on (which I am not upset about) BUT this email is just, I cant even right now. I want to scream. WTF. So insensitive.
Hey Jess!
Wow! I spoke with Ley, and just wanted to tell you that I give you guys so much credit for pulling through all of this with such good spirits.... Mood and disposition play such an important role in getting pregnant and throughout the pregnancy and its probably so hard since you and Mike are infertile and cant have any children naturally. That is what IVF is for at least! I will pray that its in your plan to have children. I hope it is and that you dont just have your dogs to spoil!
Are you going to Davids graduation or graduation party this weekend? If so, I will see you Saturday. Love you!

 

[jchic]

Hi ladies--I am 6dp3dt today and got a very, very faint bfp on a FRER test. I did it this afternoon, on a whim. So it wasn't even fmu. Not sure yet if this is residual hcg from the trigger or if this is a true bfp. Anyone heard of someone getting a faint positive 6dp3dt? I plan to test again tomorrow morning with FMU.

YOU ARE PREGNANT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Congrats mama!

 

[DaisyQ]

Oh Jess.. uggggghhhhhh. ugh!

 

[DaisyQ]

UGGGGHHHHH! I just can't either. I hope you have beautiful twins, and then another surprise natural one.

How can she think that email is OK???

 

[jchic]

UGGGGHHHHH! I just can't either. I hope you have beautiful twins, and then another surprise natural one.

How can she think that email is OK???

I know right? I have to see her on Saturday....I am livid, but if I say anything just adds fuel to the fire...trying to stay above it. She is beyond insensitive. I mean, who are YOU to call ME infertile? I mean, unless you are part on bnb or RMA, shut your mouth, LOL

 

[GettingBroody]

Wow, that email is the craziest thing I've read in a while!! I mean, seriously, what was she thinking?!?!

 

[GettingBroody]

I just got my blood results and not such great news.....my natural killer cells were elevated; the high end is 14 and mine were 29, not to mention something called MTHFR which is clotting in pg, mine was high, but said that was something they could control with other meds in my next cycle. Right now they want me to go in tomorrow morning for another blood test to repeat it and make sure it is still that high; if it is, then they refer me to another specialist. So basically starting with my next cycle next week...a NO GO I am so frustrated!!! And starting to actually think its not worth it anymore. Sorry to rant on, I am so upset! I know most of you are trying to concieve your first child and I should be blessed that I have one already, but I wanted more then anything to give him a sibling. I think at times maybe I should just be happy I have him and move on!!

So sorry to hear about your blood tests - hopefully the specialist will have some answers for you and will be able to help you get your bfp really soon. I know what you mean about wanting to give your son a sibling - myself and my brother were very close growing up (and still are!) and even though I am still only waiting for baby number 1 I know I won't be content for it to be an only child when it finally gets here... Big

Have any of you been tested for recurrent miscarriages? I think I've had two chemical pregnancies (one confirmed during this IVF cycle and a second suspected one a year ago). My RE didn't think I needed to be tested since technically I haven't had multiple later term losses, but she was willing to do it if I wanted. I figure it can't hurt, right? I thinks its just one more blood draw...what's one more after all this? Thoughts, anyone?

It certainly can't hurt if it is something you are worried about... I agree - what's one more?! We're all like pin-cushions at this stage! Is it an expensive test?

Hi ladies--I am 6dp3dt today and got a very, very faint bfp on a FRER test. I did it this afternoon, on a whim. So it wasn't even fmu. Not sure yet if this is residual hcg from the trigger or if this is a true bfp. Anyone heard of someone getting a faint positive 6dp3dt? I plan to test again tomorrow morning with FMU.

No idea about the chance of it being residual hcg but my fingers are firmly crossed for you! Looking forward to tomorrows update!

 

[michelle01]

Holy Moly! I wouldn't even know what I would do if I had to see her on Saturday Jchic! It is hard enough what we have to go through, but then for someone to be so insensitive, that is really uncalled for!!! I am sorry for you even having to read something like that; how awful of her.

 

[drsquid]

jchic- yikes im so sorry. clearly she wasnt even thinking at all..

just had to order more gonal.. sigh another 400 and something bucks. plus gotta pick my car up (about 300 and something). it is always something.

 

[oneof14]

Jchic, OMG is all I can say. Wow, that is just unreal. Good luck on saturday, you are going to need lots of strength!

 

[haj624]

Thanks Haj! Our anniversary is June 25th!

Can't believe it's almost been a year - crazy. And sad that we've spent this whole year TTC, which has been like banging our heads against a wall.

My 1 year anniversary is the 24th!!!

Wow, Congrats haj! I see you are on LI. Where did you get married? We were married in montauk.

Tella, I am on cd 6. I've stimmed 3 days so far.

Thanks for the well wishes everyone!

Coral House in Baldwin

 

[mrs stru]

Sorry, I've been trying to keep my mind off the tww so have stayed off here as much as possible.
I was doing okay until Sunday and then I started spotting and have been on and off since. I have no symptoms either.
I just need Friday afternoon to come around so that I know one way or the other, although I have resigned myself to a BFN.

 

[GettingBroody]

Mrs Stru

 

[MrsC8776]

Blue - sorry to hear about your news, but August is right around the corner!

I just got my blood results and not such great news.....my natural killer cells were elevated; the high end is 14 and mine were 29, not to mention something called MTHFR which is clotting in pg, mine was high, but said that was something they could control with other meds in my next cycle. Right now they want me to go in tomorrow morning for another blood test to repeat it and make sure it is still that high; if it is, then they refer me to another specialist. So basically starting with my next cycle next week...a NO GO I am so frustrated!!! And starting to actually think its not worth it anymore. Sorry to rant on, I am so upset! I know most of you are trying to concieve your first child and I should be blessed that I have one already, but I wanted more then anything to give him a sibling. I think at times maybe I should just be happy I have him and move on!!

I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope that everything looks ok tomorrow so that you don't have more to go through. If you desire another child don't let anything stop you.

Have any of you been tested for recurrent miscarriages? I think I've had two chemical pregnancies (one confirmed during this IVF cycle and a second suspected one a year ago). My RE didn't think I needed to be tested since technically I haven't had multiple later term losses, but she was willing to do it if I wanted. I figure it can't hurt, right? I thinks its just one more blood draw...what's one more after all this? Thoughts, anyone?

I haven't had this test but I think it would be worth it. I guess the way I look at it... what can it hurt?

Hi ladies--I am 6dp3dt today and got a very, very faint bfp on a FRER test. I did it this afternoon, on a whim. So it wasn't even fmu. Not sure yet if this is residual hcg from the trigger or if this is a true bfp. Anyone heard of someone getting a faint positive 6dp3dt? I plan to test again tomorrow morning with FMU.

I highly doubt it's your trigger. Test in the morning just to make sure it's darker/not fading. Fx for you!!

PS - just a rant here - got the following email from my cousin who is about 7 months pregnant. She has 2 sisters, one whom I am VERY VERY close to....well her sister must have told her what was going on (which I am not upset about) BUT this email is just, I cant even right now. I want to scream. WTF. So insensitive.
Hey Jess!
Wow! I spoke with Ley, and just wanted to tell you that I give you guys so much credit for pulling through all of this with such good spirits.... Mood and disposition play such an important role in getting pregnant and throughout the pregnancy and its probably so hard since you and Mike are infertile and cant have any children naturally. That is what IVF is for at least! I will pray that its in your plan to have children. I hope it is and that you dont just have your dogs to spoil!
Are you going to Davids graduation or graduation party this weekend? If so, I will see you Saturday. Love you!

Some people...

Sorry, I've been trying to keep my mind off the tww so have stayed off here as much as possible.
I was doing okay until Sunday and then I started spotting and have been on and off since. I have no symptoms either.
I just need Friday afternoon to come around so that I know one way or the other, although I have resigned myself to a BFN.

Have you tested at all? Try to stay positive because you are not out. Some ladies spot their whole first tri. Fx you get a BFP.