nipsnnibbles
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as this is our first child for both of us i am going to keep it a suprise FOR HIM everything ibuy gender wise will be hidden at my moms, and ill do the nursery yellow and pastel green, neautral colors like you said, its only fair!!
hey snowangel, i know what you mean but its reversed, i want to know the gender but my fiance doesnt....he said itll be a good suprise, i wanna know so i know what to buy!!
i didnt want to tell the family till i was at least 12weeks(bc of a m/c last yr) but he blabbed his mouth! good luck!!
We announced to family, friends, and Facebook at 3weeks4days. And by we, I mean dh. it was the same with dd, he just spills it. I would've preferred waiting a little while before telling friends/Facebook. Heck we live 1800 miles from everyone we could have just shown up with a belly, better yet a baby!! now the fight over me wanting to stay team yellow. He wants to find out, I don't. He says just let me find out and u won't have to know. I'm like seriously u expect me to believe you can keep ur mouth shut!!??!! I don't know. I mean I am the one going through carrying the baby and delivery.. I think I should be able to decide something!! Oh well, maybe baby won't cooperate.
Anybody with plans this weekend?
I have seen mothers who have found out and not told the fathers. I think its easier that way, just keep all the things you buy under wraps. Decorate the nursery neutral then keep whatever u buy in there. He stays out. Could u keep it a secret so he could be surprised?