to you, hopefully 
stays away!!! And for the record, average time to achieve pregnancies for healthy couples in their mid-30's is 6 months, hang in there!!!
I only used 1-2 lines of preseed because it definitely made things too slippery using the whole applicator full. I also used softcups and while they were rather gross removing, they may have helped!
Softcups are menstrual cups and can hold a lot more fluid than a tampon. They aren't marketed as a fertility aid, but they should be.
After you bd, you insert one (squeeze and slip behind your pelvic bone) and leave in for a few hours. It keeps the swimmers in near your cervix so they don't all come out when you get up. Whether or not they are of actual help I don't know, but it was worth using them. Could be a concidence, but it's my 2nd cycle and first with preseed and softcups and it worked. Who am I to question? Wow, am I the only one doing things au naturel, no supplements, preseed or anything? My concern is even natural supplements are chemically active (that's how they have their biological effect) and unless there is a medical reason to add something to the mix, I'd best just keep it simple! Yes, soy can either shorten cycles or lengthen it, once again it depends on the woman. Same goes for other supplements... We'll see if I decide to add something if we haven't conceived yet in 2-3 cycles
). I wish!
We have never managed to DTD on actual O day and it has caused some major resentmentas I feel like I'm doing so much to improve our chances of TTC and all he has to do is
for about 4 days, it's not that much to ask?
I have to say ladies, this TTC business is not really that good for my relationship and I think I'm not the only one who feels that way.
Northstar, you know I'm with you on this one
You're definitely not alone, Northstar. I had to hide all of the OPKs last month and try to be a little more sly about things, because the pressure of having to
and a 
to the 
helped when she got me 2 days ago....
